382. Special Life-Changing Days In Our Lives.

Most of us can recall certain days in our lives that always stand out in our memories. They brought great changes to our lives. One such day for me was 22 August 1964, some 57 years ago as I write this.

I had come home from Melbourne to Qld for mid-year holidays. I was half-way through my first year theological studies and had travelled to Monto to visit my sister’s family where her husband was the Rector of the parish. 

I had asked my very best and dearly loved friend Carole to come with me because I would soon be going back to Melbourne and would not see her again for several months. Now we were on the way home from Monto and we pulled up outside a little town called Esk before we drove the last section home. We began to talk about the future, hers and mine. Somehow we knew that they would be linked in the days ahead, such was the closeness of our friendship. But that would be much further in the future. So I thought!

The conversation began to focus on how much we had missed each other over the first part of the year and how sad it would be to say “Farewell” again in just a few days’ time. I knew that I would have at least another 3 years in Melbourne and Carole would have another 18 months to finish her teaching bond with the Qld Dept of Education. 18 months seemed to be ages away and with very little time to spend together over that period.

It seemed to me that Carole had already decided that I would be her life-partner for she was knocking back all the dates she was being offered, and there were many for such an attractive young woman. I had certainly made the same decision about my life partner. It would be Carole. But wasn’t it too early to propose? I sat there battling the biggest decision of my life. Should I propose or leave it, as I had been thinking, for a later date. 

I felt that God’s smile was on our relationship. He was at the centre of our relationship for he had brought us together and our Christian friends seemed to think we were meant to be together. But it still seemed to be a bit unreal that I could ever be married to such a gorgeous, attractive, intelligent creature. I had learned about God’s grace being poured out on undeserving creatures so could it possibly be true that He had brought us together in His grace and in His love, to serve Him together to His glory. I took step of faith. I think my conversation went something like this, ”Carole what would you say if one day I asked you to marry me?” Her answer was immediate, “I would say ‘Yes’.” My response was also immediate, “Carole, will you marry me?” How delightful to hear this fabulous creature say, “Of course I will.”

About 3.30pm on that special day, 22 August 1964 we had pulled up outside Esk with lots of questions in our minds about the future. About an hour later we drove away with the biggest question answered, the question of with whom we would share the remainder of our lives. Exactly 18 months later we were married and served the Lord together for some 53 years until her death in October 2019. What a privilege to have been married to such a beautiful, loving, God fearing woman whom the Lord sent into my life almost 60 years ago.  

As we look at the special days in our lives we are reminded that they are special because they remind us of the loving hand of our Heavenly Father guiding us through the maze of all sorts of circumstances and all types of relationships so that we finish up with His VERY BEST as we seek to live for Him. The writer of Proverbs posed a question which I have been able to answer. This is the question, Pro 31:10 “An excellent wife who can find?” My answer?“I found one!” And Carole fully answered the description of the excellent wife that the writer of Proverbs then went on to describe, “She is far more precious than jewels. 11 The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. 12  She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. “Proverbs 31:10-12.

How true those words are of my beloved Carole. How blessed was I! And every August 22nd reminds me of God’s incredible grace to me in His choice of my life-partner, the mother of our children, the grandma to our grandchildren and my fellow-servant in decades of ministry. Praise the Lord! Great things He has done! And I am perpetually grateful for His amazing grace to me!

Blog No.382 posted on http://www.jimholbeck.blog on 22nd August 2021

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381. A “Thank You” To All My Friends, From Carole Holbeck [nee Tapsell] 1943-2019.

It was only a week ago and 20 months after my wife Carole passed away that we came across a message she had left for her friends. It was on the last page of an exercise book she had been using in the weeks before she passed away. I was quite moved by it because I knew how much she loved all her friends and how grateful she was for all the positive contributions they had imparted into her life throughout her lifetime.

I didn’t know she had written the message, nor did she tell me about it. But I can imagine her sitting at her desk probably after ringing one of her friends knowing that her time to depart this life was rapidly approaching. Chemotherapy had come to an end for it was having no effect on the cancer that was spreading throughout her body. A recent series of mini-strokes meant that it was becoming harder for her to communicate. It seems she had reflected on her life and been so grateful to God for all her friends in life that she had to leave a Thank You note for her friends before it was too late to do so. It is a simple message but I know the emotion and the depth of feeling that would have been behind it, as she wrote the words.

This was the simple message.

Email to Friends

“If you are getting this, then I must be with the Lord. 

What a privilege it has been to know you and to experience your loving acceptance over the years. Thank you!”

Carole had collected lots of friends from the time she arrived in Australia as a four year old. She lived initially in Booval and then in East Ipswich and had many friends in the neighbourhood during her primary school days. Being a leader in Girl Guides and later in GFS [Girls Friendly Society] added to their number. She valued a friend she had made at a Girl Guide [Brownies] camp near Brisbane perhaps in her early teens when they shared a tent together. They were still good friends at the time of her death. She was blessed to have classmates at her senior Primary School classes many of whom remained friends until she died. She loved attending their reunions whenever she could.

She loved her Ipswich Girls Grammar School and added friends there, many of whom were boarders from throughout the state. Being made Sports Captain of the school was a recognition of her sporting prowess and of her friendly leadership qualities. She loved school reunions and enjoyed meeting up with her former school friends there, even several decades later. 

Probably because of the number of her Ipswich friends at Teachers College, Carole was selected as the female Student Representative on The Teachers College Council. Later she attended Queensland University to become a Physical Education teacher and represented the Uni at hockey. Upon graduation she was appointed to be a Physical Education teacher in the Brisbane-Ipswich region and made friends among the teachers in many of the schools she visited in her role. When we were married in 1966 there were many of her pupils from Brassall High school present at the wedding.

Church life brought Carole into a whole new group of very friendly young people and especially through her leadership role at GFS and as part of the League of Youth young people from Brisbane, Ipswich and Toowoomba. Many of these folk were still friends when she passed away. 

It was a wrench for her when we married and moved immediately to Melbourne for me to finish theological college. She knew no one in Melbourne but she soon attracted a lot of friends from among the teachers and even some students at her high school. She formed close friendships with the wives of other theological students which lasted for decades. 

In 1968 we returned to Qld where I was appointed to Coorparoo parish. Friendships she made there still exist today and many of those folk were so kind to her when both Sarah and James were born. In 1972 I was appointed by the Archbishop to the apparently unattractive Mt Gravatt parish. It had a tiny 2 bedroom Rectory which a reporter on church affairs called the worst Rectory on the east coast of Australia. It had no church building.  However Carole’s friendly nature attracted a whole bevy of young women into the parish and she had friends galore to share with. There was a real move of the Holy Spirit and over the next 4 years we saw a new church built and also a new Rectory. It became a large and extremely friendly church and again many of those friendships still exist today. 

To our surprise we were invited in 1978 to go to Armidale in NSW for me to become the Dean of the Cathedral. That meant leaving virtually all our friends behind in moving to a new state. However we found the folk there were very friendly and welcoming and we soon formed many friendships. In fact 2 of Carole’s long term friends from there passed away just a few weeks before she did after very close friendships for over 41 years. It was a great time together in Armidale and a lot of deep friendships were formed. 

There was yet another change for us in 1988 when I was invited to become the Leader of the Healing Ministry at St Andrew’s Cathedral, in Sydney. We moved there to find that the folk attached to the Ministry were very friendly and Carole was very welcoming to those who came to the Centre where we lived and ministered. Carole’s friendliness and deep concern for people encouraged many folk to become more involved at the Healing Ministry Centre and at the Healing Services in the Cathedral.

When our daughter was married in the Cathedral in Sydney in 2006 Carole invited all those in contact with the Healing Ministry who would like to attend the service to do so and made provision for all present to have afternoon tea together following the service. We were both surprised at the number of folk who accepted the invitation and attended. That was yet another sign of the friendship that Carole had imparted to all the Healing Ministry people, a friendship they returned so richly.

2006 was also the year that Carole decided to retire as Senior Head Teacher of TAFE at Loftus.  Her send-off was quite an amazing event not only for the numbers who attended but also for the warmth of the tributes that were paid to her. Another amazing event was a farewell from her friends at the park where she regularly walked our dog Geordie. Some 80 plus people turned up [with 80 plus dogs] to wish her well on our retirement move to Port Macquarie. I decided to retire a few months later and we moved to Port Macquarie where we knew very few people. But Carole became involved in many church groups where people of all age groups reached out in friendship to her. Our retirement in Port Macquarie has been a great blessing to both of us and I know so many of her friends were so very sad to see her become weaker in the final weeks and to pass away. We did do a locum at Yamba in Maclean parish for almost 12 months from late 2011 but left there to do our final teaching trip to Florida. Even in that short time, many friendships were formed and parishioners appreciated her warm personality.

I should mention our friends in Winter Park in Florida and at Birmingham, Alabama. We had been invited there to teach on Healing for their Healing Ministry and we kept being invited back to Winter Park every year for 9 years. We would minister there on most days for a month every year and Carole enjoyed being able to minister deeply to people’s needs in such a relaxed situation. She maintained the friendships we established there by phone, email and Facebook until her death.  

I suppose that I as Carole’s husband have to mention that she was a “Friend Par Excellence” to innumerable people, but the purpose of this writing is to say how much Carole appreciated all her friends and how she obviously wanted me to say “thank You” to them on her behalf. In her own words “What a privilege it has been to know you and to experience your loving acceptance over the years. Thank you!”

Carole wanted you to see that she saw every friendship as a great privilege the Lord had bestowed on her and to express her deep gratitude for your loving acceptance. “THANK YOU!” [From Carole, and me.]

Blog No.381. Posted on www.jimholbeck.blog on Sunday 04 July 2021.

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380. Reflecting On The Contribution of All Saints Anglican Church Booval [Ipswich] To Jim And Carole Holbeck


The Anglican Church at All Saints Booval recently celebrated 125 years of ministry in the Booval to Redbank area between Ipswich and Brisbane in Queensland. In the 1950’s and 1960’s there was a significant move of the Holy Spirit which meant that many young people and families went from the parish into missionary or other full-time ministry in the church in Australia and overseas. A decision was made to compile a book seeking to record the ministry of many of the people whom God touched to work for Him at that time. Many of us were able to contribute a chapter each to the book. The book “Unleashed” was launched at a special service on Sunday 6th May at All Saints Booval by the Archbishop of Brisbane when many of us were able to meet again after decades to praise God for His goodness in calling us from the parish to serve Him. What follows is the material that became much of the chapter that I wrote in contributing to the book.

The story of Jim and Carole Holbeck [Tapsell] [1943 to 2019] written by Jim.

I didn’t realise on New Year’s Eve 1958 when I surrendered my life to Christ in the flat I was holidaying in, in Boundary Street, Coolangatta that All Saints Booval would play such a large part in my life in the future.

Vicar Ware

I first met Vicar Colin Ware at All Saints Booval when I took a brand new convert to Christ to meet him. Bill’s conversion as a well-known atheist in Qld was a surprise to everyone, especially Bill. He was reading the little New Testament I had given him when suddenly he staggered out of his room in the Railway Laboratory where we worked, ashen faced and shaking like a leaf, under the strong conviction of the Holy Spirit. He was saying, “It’s all true isn’t it. It is all true. What have I got to do?” Being only a few weeks into the faith myself, I suggested we go and see this Colin Ware bloke who seemed to be very well respected. He prayed for us both and Bill began to go to his local North Ipswich church [becoming a lay preacher and eventually a member of General Synod], while I decided to attend All Saints from that time on.

Ministry Opportunities at All Saints Booval

Ministry opportunities began to beckon and soon I was helping lead a CEBS group and later when Don and Margaret Douglass and their family arrived, to help lead Junior church as well. Carole did a lot with the Douglass kids and greatly loved and admired the whole family. I was also going to CMS League of Youth meetings in Brisbane and began to lead a Branch at All Saints Booval. This quickly grew with some outstanding young people joining. One of the younger ones was this lass named Carole Tapsell, the daughter of the church organist Eileen and the famous hockey dual Olympic gold medallist, Carl Tapsell. Carole was the last to be picked up and the first dropped off as I rounded them up for LOY meetings. But as the months wore on, Carole was the last person I dropped off. It seemed that we wanted to share more time with each other! In my Prayer Diary I had written these words at the beginning of 1963, as I obviously had been thinking about marriage in general, “Prepare me for her. Prepare her for me. Prepare us for Thee.” I wasn’t sure who the “her” was, but I wanted to be ready for His choice. When I returned home midyear from theological college in Melbourne in 1964, it was obvious that Carole Tapsell was the “her” God had prepared for me and Carole and I became engaged just days before my father died of a brain tumour. We married in January 1966 at All Saints, Booval!

All Saints Booval Young People in TrainIng

In 1965 when I was second year at Ridley College, Carole and her mother were extremely kind to my widowed mother. Meanwhile it was great to have a Booval contingent with me at College in Melbourne, namely Tom and Heather, my sister Del and Greg and also Graham who was later to marry Sally. Kathy and Ivory had become nurses and served in Northern Australia amongst indigenous peoples for CMS. Cyril and Val had studied at Croydon Bible College, and Lesley McGrath served as a CMS missionary in South America. I believe these close friends of mine have all made a big impact for the kingdom through their ministries over decades.

Carole Holbeck [nee Tapsell]

Carole had a wonderful ministry among the girls of the Booval GFS group being such a fun person and already was showing signs of becoming a dynamic leader. She did well at Teachers College and at Qld University and as a Physical Education teacher in schools in Ipswich and Brisbane. Although she had not played field hockey at school, she began to play at university and was soon a member of the A Grade team. She later became a selector and also state coach for the Qld Schoolgirls Hockey team and in athletics trained her Brassall High School’s relay team to break the state athletic age record. Perhaps thousands of children were taught to swim by Carole at the schools where she taught swimming during the summer swimming circuits she was engaged in, in many schools in the Ipswich-Brisbane area.

Since her death on 31October 2019 I have often felt like writing reams about what a lovely precious person she was and is, and how the Lord had mightily used her during and following her All Saints days. [Some of my articles which mention Carole are on my Facebook page while others are on my www.jimholbeck.blogpage, articles Nos. 329, 330, 364, 369, 370, 372,373, 375, 377, 378. Traces here of historical romance which after the Bible and Christian literature became her favourite reading genre!]

It is encouraging that a young self-effacing beautiful young girl doing good stuff at Booval can later make such a contribution to the church and to the wider world. Just some quick examples.

1966-68. When we were at a mainly men’s Ridley theological college in Melbourne Carole got on well with all the male students and became a hair-dresser to some. [No training but she did a good free job!]

AS a teacher she soon won the respect of other Phys Ed teachers in Melbourne and formed deep friendships with Fellow staff and students at her Reservoir school.

1969-1972 We returned to Qld where I was ordained for St Stephen’s Coorparoo. Carole as a young Clergy wife was involved in many ministries but especially a 20 plus group which met at our home. Our Sarah was born in 1971.

1972-78. When I became the Rector of Mt Gravatt with a tiny Rectory and no church building we worked hard to get the parish going while we cared for Sarah and James who arrived in 1973. [Poor James was born with bent bones and kept falling over his own feet. Calipers were used to enable him to walk more easily. Praise God he fulfilled his dream of representing Australia in 7 Rugby Union Tests as a Wallaby!]

Building up the parish was a team effort with very keen parishioners helping to build up Mt Gravatt parish and eventually a new church and later a new Rectory were built and paid for. Carole had a great ministry among the Mothers Union, Women’s Guild and especially the lively and exciting Young Wives Dept which she helped build up to about 80 young women. Sunday school under her leadership rose from just a trickle to almost the biggest in the diocese.

1978 to 1988. A new adventure as I became the Dean of St Peter’s Cathedral, Armidale. There was a mighty move of the Holy Spirit such as we had seen at Booval and so the Cathedral was packed for services. We joined in fellowship with other ministers in the town and combined outreaches touched the town such as a visit for a week from the David Watson team from their dynamic ministry in York, England. We also hosted a visit from the Christian musical group the Fisherfolk from the USA.  The Ministers’ Fraternal also hosted a visit from the God Squad from Melbourne who ministered for a week in most of the schools in Armidale. Carole helped organise a Women’s luncheon which attracted over 800 women to hear John Smith of the God Squad, with other women on a waiting list. Carole had a great ministry among the women and teenagers assisted by her mother who had come to live with us. Eileen Tapsell of Booval became a much-loved “Gran” [as she was called] to younger and older generations in Armidale and especially to David our Armidale addition in 1979.

1988 to 2006. Our final fulltime ministry was at St Andrew’s Cathedral, in Sydney where I became the Leader of the Healing Ministry and an Assistant Minister to the Dean.

[The Healing service in the Cathedral began in 1960 when a number of people asked Canon Jim Glennon to lead a weekly service at which people could have hands laid on them and be prayed for healing. It grew to what was described as the largest service of its kind in the Anglican Communion in the world. People came from many denominations to learn how to pray for the sick. I was chosen to continue the service when Canon Glennon retired in 1988. The ministry expanded at The Healing Ministry Centre [Golden Grove] at Newtown which became a residential centre for people coming to Sydney and a place where teaching and prayer ministry could be exercised throughout the week.]

A team of us would run Cancer Weekends for those with cancer and for their carers. Large numbers of attendees were healed physically and emotionally and many came to Christ over those weekends. Then we introduced Core Teaching seminars from Tuesdays to Thursdays where I would teach on the ”core” elements of the Healing ministry in the church. Eventually we had 5 Core Teaching Stages with 5 or 6 subjects in each stage. We would have several of these different stages throughout the year. Personal counselling [prayer ministry] was freely offered for guests and for anyone who came to the Centre. We tried to find a need and then to work out programmes based on the word of God to meet that need. I encouraged the members of the Healing Ministry to run other weekly groups at the Centre and some of those were very well attended and richly blessed by the Lord. Friday nights became a time for Praise and worship and encouraging teaching. 

God alone knows what He did in people’s lives in the Healing service in the Cathedral and at the Healing Ministry Centre, but it was obvious from testimonies that He had been mightily at work through both.

Initially we lived near Beecroft and Gran moved into the Anglican Retirement Village at Castle Hill where she had a great music and prayer ministry. Carole travelled daily across Sydney to St George where she became a Head Teacher in Child Studies, which she loved and for which she won several awards. Later she became the Senior Head Teacher in Health and Recreation at Loftus TAFE near Sutherland. She built this department into the biggest of its kind in Australia and as someone suggested, possibly the biggest of its kind in the Southern Hemisphere. She received many rewards over the years and one year was a runner-up for the Premier’s award, the top award for all the branches of the Public Service in NSW. She was one of only 22 people nominated from the tens of thousands of people working for the Public Service.

In the meantime she ministered at our Healing Ministry Centre in Newtown and cared especially for staff and for guests, many of whom were patients or were visiting patients at RPA Hospital nearby.

2006 to 2019. Retirement. Carole’s retirement function was marked with the biggest attendance they had seen at such a function and the head of that section of DET [NSW TAFE] said he marvelled how Carole could mix with and help and integrate all levels of people. I wrote somewhere that it was her Christian love that made her reach out to help her staff, her students, her peers and superiors. She wanted the best for them all and I discovered after her death, that many were deeply appreciative of her efforts to go out of her way to help them, as seen in the wonderful tributes to her that they sent me.

A Special farewell was held for her by over 80 people and the same number of dogs in the open at Sydney Park where she used to walk our dog Geordie. She loved and knew the names of all the dogs, and the people from all backgrounds whom she had met and befriended, really loved her.

A lovely retirement among godly loving believers at Port Macquarie followed until her death in October 2019.

USA Ministry. Carole and I had the joy of ministering for at least a month at a time on 10 occasions in the Episcopal church in America. They were in Wisconsin, Alabama and Florida in 1999 and Florida in 2001,2,3,4,5,6,7,8 and 2012. They were teaching missions on healing and we both made ourselves available for counselling [prayer ministry] during our times there. Over the years hundreds were ministered to and counselled and Carole loved having more time to minister deeply to people. She deeply loved the people and was very much loved in return. 

You can see how proud I am of my late beloved Carole but I praise God for all He did in and through her to His glory. But I write this also as an encouragement to any young person at All Saints, Booval, or to any person anywhere, to realise that when you hand your life over to the Lord, He can do amazing things in and through you, even if you are a loving, humble self-effacing person like Carole.

Addendum. I still have my prayer Diary for the 1960’s and recently found the names of the following for whom I used to pray. [For privacy, numbers and not names are given.]

22 Junior CEBS, 18 Senior CEBS, 42 League of Youth members, 59 other Booval young people, 19 Junior Church, 28 Booval families.

Praise God for all the godly clergy familes we were privileged to have at Booval, including Colin [and Judith] Ware, Don and Margaret Douglass, Herb and Marg Robey, Jim and Diana Stonier, Brian Seers, and later Don and Lurline Campbell and others. They all made their wonderful unique contribution to All Saints!

“To God be the glory. Great things He has done!” [Through ordinary folk at All Saints, Booval, who were totally committed to Him!]

The photos below are on the left, the godly Tapsell family with Carole as a senior schoolgirl and on the right our leaving All Saints, Booval on our wedding day to begin almost 54 years of joyous life and ministry together.

Praise God for His grace and mercy and for giving us such wonderful gifts, of each other in marriage, our children, our grandchildren and a ministry together that touched the lives of thousands of people throughout the world!

Blog No 380 posted on Tuesday 25th May 2021

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What do we mean by faith? There are many definitions but one I read over 50 years ago, still is valuable in my opinion. It is based on the letters of the word, FAITH. It Is F.A.I.T.H.  “Forsaking All ITrusting Him!” It reminds us that a true commitment to Christ is learning to trust God in every area of our lives so that He motivates and empowers our every thought and deed. A passage such as Philippians 2:12-13 shows that connection, “Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, 13 for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.

Of course the Bible has a great definition of faith in Hebrews 11. In fact the chapter opens with this definition of faith and then introduces many of the heroes of faith in the following verses. Here is Heb 11:1, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” [ESV] Or “Now faith is the reality of what is hoped for, the proof of what is not seen “[CSB]. OR in the words of the NEB,“Faith brings substance to our hopes. And makes us certain of realities we do not see.”

So faith is different from positive thinking. In its focus. It is trusting in the Lord’s resources, not in our own wisdom or strength. Notice the faith of the writer in in Psalm 23, “The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. 3 He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. 4 Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the LORD forever.” Here is a faith that trusts God throughout life until life ends. So we look at how faith is involved from the time we come to Christ until we go to be with Him. These are some of the main verses.


PROMISE OF SALVATION. Faith is the key to receiving the promise of salvation by God. Paul reminded Timothy of his spiritual background. 2 Tim 3:15, “and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.” It meant that when Timothy was confronted with the truth of the gospel, he was able to understand the message and respond the Christ of the gospel.

KEY TO SALVATION, for entrance into the Kingdom and for access to God. 

  • Rom 1:16. “For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek.” It was the gospel message that brought people from darkness into the light of Christ.
  • Rom 10:9,  ‘If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.‘ An inward belief that Christ is Lord needs to be expressed outwardly in words for salvation to take heart deeply in the life of a believer.
  • Eph 2:8, “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God” God’s grace is seen to be at work when people hear the gospel and respond to it. It is their faith that enables them to receive the gift of God in the gospel.
  • Eph 3:12 (access), In him and through faith in him we may approach God with freedom and confidence. Not only is faith involved when people come to Christ, but faith also continues allowing the believer to have free access to God at all times.

ENABLES US TO RECEIVE THE SPIRIT. Many in the church in Galatia had been tempted to go back to their Jewish roots and observing theJewish law, whilst ignoring their commitment to Christ. Paul wrote to rebuke them and challenges them to think back to the time of their conversion to Christ, Gal 3:2, “…Did you receive the Spirit by the works of the law, or by believing what you heard?” They would remember that their conversion happened as they heard and responded to the gospel message and received the Spirit of God into their hearts. Their reception of the Spirit occurred as they by faith accepted Christ and not while they were trying to obey the Jewish law. A few verses later Paul added that the scripture had foreseen that God would justify the Gentile people as they exercised faith in the Christ of the gospel, Gal 3:8, “Scripture foresaw that God would justify the Gentiles by faith

God’s Promises were released through faith

  • Gal 3:22. “But Scripture has locked up everything under the control of sin, so that what was promised, being given through faith in Jesus Christ, might be given to those who believe. God’s promises were to be released into the lives of those who believed in the Christ of the gospel message, to those who had faith in Christ.
  • Gal 3:14. “He redeemed us in order that the blessing given to Abraham might come to the Gentiles through Christ Jesus, so that by faith we might receive the promise of the Spirit.” It would seem that the Abrahamic blessing would certainly include the gift of the Holy Spirit. Both Jew and Gentile who responded in faith to the Christ of the gospel message would receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
  • Gal 5:6 “For through the Spirit we eagerly await by faith the righteousness for which we hope.” Paul recognised that believers had received the gift of righteousness as they put their test in Christ. They had been credited with the righteousness of God so that God could declare them to be righteous in His sight, clothed with the righteousness of Christ. But they also needed to grow in righteousness in the sense of becoming closer to the righteousness that marked the life of the earthly Christ, to become more like Him their daily living. That would come as they continued to trust in Christ, more and more.

BELONGING TO GOD’S FAMILY. Gal 3:26. ”So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith” [Rom 8:15]. Paul wanted all his readers to know that through putting their trust in Christ, they were not only justified by faith but they actually belonged to God’s family. As he wrote in Romans 8;14-17, “For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. 15 For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16 The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.” Children of God, indeed fellow heirs with Christ!

Faith Is NEEDED TO PLEASE GOD, Heb.11:6. We need to believe “that He exists and rewards those who seek Him.” The writer to the Hebrews wrote that without faith is impossible to please God. He states that those who want to draw near to God must believe two things, namely that He does exist and also that He rewards all those who endeavour to seek Him.

BRINGS PROTECTION. We see even in the Old Testament that it was recognised that the Lord is our refuge and strength as we trust in Him, Ps 118:8, “It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in man.” AND Prov 29:25. “The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.” Peter also recognised that believers were protected by a shield, the shield being the power of God, AND We are shielded by God’s power through faith, 1 Pet 1:5 [believers] “who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time.

HEALING. Faith is the key for receiving healing. A woman with a flow of blood reached out and touched the hem of his garment believing that as she did so she would be healed. She was healed instantly. Jesus turned and saw her. “Take heart, daughter,” he said, “your faith has healed you.” And the woman was healed at that moment.‘ Mat 9:22. Jesus had healed her, but her faith had opened the door for the healing to take place.

In the early church there was expectancy that prayer could bring healing. So James encouraged those who were sick, to pray in faith for healing and to encourage mature believers to pray over them. Jas 5:13 Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing praise. 14 Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord. 15 And the prayer of faith will save the one who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. 6 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” He saw this as being a prayer of faith.

ANSWERS TO PRAYER.  The wonderful promise of Jesus to answer the prayers of those who abide in Him and abide in His word. Joh 15:7 “If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.” Jesus is here showing His disciples throughout the ages the secret to having prayers answered. It is by abiding in Him in a close relationship and by abiding in His word. It as we do so that we come to understand in a deeper way His heart and also gain a deeper understanding of His will regarding prayer and healing.

BRINGS PEACE. Faith brings peace, Is.26:3, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” The person who trusts in the Lord is able to experience peace in all the trials of life. As the next verse puts it, “Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD GOD is an everlasting rock.” Is 26:4. Our peace comes from His unchanging rock-like strength because we can trust Him to oversee on our behalf.

Isa 30:15 ‘For thus said the Lord GOD, the Holy One of Israel, “In returning and rest you shall be saved; in quietness and in trust shall be your strength.” But you were unwilling.’ But peace can be forfeited. Israel as a nation forfeited the peace they could have known because they were unwilling to trust in God. By not accepting His constant help they failed to experience the peace and quietness they could have experienced and were weakened as a result.

Our justification by God brings us His peace. Rom 5:1 “Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” To have the God of the universe saying of us, “I declare you to be righteous in my eyes”and “I see you as being clothed in the righteousness of My Son” brings incredible peace to those who trust Him.

PROSPERITY. Brings prosperity. Prov.28:25, A greedy man stirs up strife, but the one who trusts in the LORD will be enriched. The person who fails to make the Lord His provider, Who promises to supply the needs of those who trust Him, does not experience peace but is unsettled and unsettles others as well. By contrast the one who trusts in the Lord for his needs is open to receive from God all he needs and more.

Jesus gave a commandment and a promise in the one saying, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Mat 6:33. Faith is involved in seeking first the kingdom of God for it involves laying down the reliance on our own wisdom and strength and learning to find and fulfil the Lord’s will for doing things in His way with the wisdom He gives us.

THE PRAYER OF FAITH. James 5:15  “And the prayer of faith will save the one who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.” The prayer of faith”. This is the literal translation. [NIV, “the prayer offered in faith” is an interpretation of the phrase, but probably correct.] That faith would be present in this process is obvious in the following: the sick man’s willingness to call for the elders, and their willingness to respond to his request. Also the willingness for the elders to pray, and for the sick man to receive prayer, shows the recognition on the part of all of them, that healing comes from the Lord upon whom they are all dependent.

Thus the prayer of faith is to be seen as the healing power of God being released through believing prayer. It is not a magical incantation, so that the right words rightly intoned, will always bring healing. Nor is it a magic formula that always works. It is praying with faith in the trustworthy promises of the trustworthy God. 


We notice the link between Is 53:4 and Mt 8:16-17, where physical healing is seen to be a fulfilment of the Messiah bearing the illnesses and the diseases of the people. “That evening they brought to him many who were oppressed by demons, and he cast out the spirits with a word and healed all who were sick. This was to fulfill what was spoken by the prophet Isaiah: “He took our illnesses and bore our diseases.”

Even as healing for guilt (forgiveness) was made available through the Messiah bearing the transgressions and iniquities of the people (Is.53:5, 1 Peter 2:24), so healing for the body was made available through the Messiah bearing the sicknesses and pains of the people for whom He came to die. 

Does everyone live in the freedom of the perfection of the forgiveness from sin? Is there not a lot of unnecessary guilt being carried? It is no different in the case of the availability of physical healing. Either people don’t realise that Jesus died to make it available, or else they don’t perfectly appropriate the healing that Jesus has made available through His death and resurrection.

The prayer of faith is based on the premise that healing has been made available, and in faith we learn to draw upon the resources for healing that exist in Him, in His unsearchable riches.  It is not a case of manipulating God so that eventually He will give in to our requests. Rather it is humbly asking that the provision for our needs, may be released into our own particular situation as we humbly pray in faith, and in confidence that it has been provided for us in Christ.


John wrote, 1 Jn.5:14-15.  v.14. And this is the confidence we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.  15.  And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have obtained (literally present tense “have”) the requests made (literally “have asked”) of Him.

Notes:  All the verbs underlined are in the present tense. In v.15, both occurrences of “know”, and  also “made” are in the perfect [past] tense.  What is not clear in these verses, is the time for the reception of those things requested.  Was it eternally in Him according to His eternal purpose, and released to us through our prayers? Or was it given to us from the moment we prayed and He heard?  [Either way, they are ours in Him!]

Matthew put it, Mat 21:21-22.  “Truly I say to you, if you have faith and never doubt, you will not only do what has been done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain, ‘be taken up and cast into the sea’, it will be done. 22. And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive if you have faith.” (“If you have faith” is the present participle “believing”.) That is, 22 “And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.”

The Markan equivalent in Mk 11:21-22, “Truly I say to you, if you have faith and never doubt, you will not only do what has been done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain, ‘be taken up and cast into the sea’, it will be done. 22. And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive if you have faith.” (“If you have faith” is the present participle “believing”.) [NKJV 22 “And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.”] This is a promise from Jesus about what happens when believing prayer is made to God. Jesus added in Mark 11:24, ” Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” Jesus is encouraging us to believe that we should pray and also believe from that moment that we have received the answer to our prayers. Again it is unclear as to when the reception takes place, but it seems to be from the time of the prayer, though of course received after that, which is in the future from the time of asking.

John records the words of Jesus, John 14:13-1413  Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14  If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it.”  To ask “in His name “is to ask in faith on the basis of who He is and on what He has done [His Person and Work]. It has to be to the glory of God through Jesus Christ.

THE PRAYER OF FAITH. Some writers.

Colin Urquhart“You are to pray with faith. You are to believe that you have received whatever you ask for in prayer.” The rider he makes is that we need to “pray with faith given by God’s Spirit.  … If we do not allow the Spirit to guide and lead our praying, then we shall often pray in the wrong way and meet with a negative response from the Lord.” (ICJ In Christ Jesus p.162 )

Canon John Gunstone warns, “We’re called to believe in God, not to have faith in our faith. … I only begin to feel secure when I put my trust in what God wants and in what He can do. …The results can be left in God’s hands.”(TLIOH The Lord Is Our Healer. p.181.

Canon Jim Glennon encouraged us with the words, ” when one prays in faith, it is remarkable how much discernment is given by the Spirit as to how to pray, and minister appropriately.” (YHIWY p.168)

The PRAYER OF FAITH is prayer trusting a faithful God to answer prayers based on His faithful promises in the Bible.

NOTE: [This was the content of a Zoom teaching given from my home in Port Macquarie to the Healing Ministry at the Healing Ministry Centre, Golden Grove, Newtown, Sydney on Saturday 17th April 2021.]

Blog No.379 posted on http://www.jimholbeck.blog on Tuesday 20th April 2021

us with the words, ” when one prays in faith, it is remarkable how much discernment is given by the Spirit as to how to pray, and minister appropriately.” (YHIWY p.168)The PRAYER OF FAITH is trusting a faithful God to answer prayers based on His faithful promises in His word, the Bible.

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378. A Wonderful Birthday on Sunday 7th February 1943. Kharagpur, India. A Blessing to Thousands of People Worldwide!

A wonderful event occurred on Sunday 7 February 1943. The birth of Carole Ann Tapsell.

Carole was born to Carl and Eileen Tapsell at Kharagpur near Calcutta in India. Carl was known as one the greatest field hockey players of all time with 2 Olympic Gold medals for India in 1932 [Los Angeles] and 1936 [Berlin]. The family moved to Ipswich in 1947 and years later I heard about this Carole who had become a winner of Eisteddfods and a Sports Champion in many sports, including becoming a Qld GPS Sprint champion. She became a member of the church Youth Group I led and she became my best friend ever for over 60 wonderful years..

What a privilege it has been to me to have been the person chosen by God to marry her for 54 years and to be blessed by the Lord with 3 wonderful children and 4 grand-children. It was a privilege too for us to serve the Lord in ministry together for over 50 years in Australia and North America.

Carole read some years ago that on birthdays we honour and celebrate the uniqueness of the person. She tried to do that with everyone and I’m taking this opportunity to do the same for her, even though the Lord took her home to Himself on 31 October 2019.

When I included some photos of Carole in an article recently I was surprised by how many friends around the world loved seeing them. I have included some more here to jog the memory of friends we have known for over 60 years and to show a younger Carole than many folk may have seen her.

Her lovely smile touches me deeply every time I look at photos or remember how she smiled. Especially at me!

On her birthday I celebrate her uniqueness with a thankful heart but with an ongoing very acute sense of loss.

“To God be the Glory, Great things He has done!” In and through this delightful and precious birthday gift to the world on 7th February 1943!

In the early years of marriage
A photo of our family when I was the Dean of St Peter’s Cathedral, Armidale from 1978-1988
Married for longer. Still smiling!
Carole loving nursing our youngest grandchild Harrison in 2017
Carole had wonderful ministry keeping in contact with family and friends all around the world. Especially on their birthdays. She cared deeply for family, friends, her staff and students and even for new acquaintances.

Blog No.378. A Wonderful Birthday on Sunday 7th February 1943. Kharagpur, India. A Blessing to Thousands of People Worldwide!

[This previously appeared on my Facebook site in time for Carole’s Birthday.]

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377. Honouring a Very Special Person! Carole Ann Holbeck, 1943 -2019

On the 22nd January 2021 I would have been celebrating with my wife our 55th Wedding Anniversary. However the Lord took her home to Himself on the 31st October 2019, but not before we had enjoyed over 50 years of a rich and exciting life and ministry together in Him. Many were the blessings over those years especially His gifts of children and grand-children. Included among those blessings were loyal and loving family and friends who have been so understanding and kind to me since Carole exited this life.

She was a very special person who had the ability in Christ to make everyone she met, feel they were special people too. The world was made richer for her presence in this world for almost 77 years, and now is much poorer because of her absence.

As I compiled this brief montage of photos I was reminded afresh of the Very Special Person she was [and is now with the Lord] and of the tremendous privilege I had as an ordinary human being in being able to love her and to be loved by her.The photos I compiled show Carole as a schoolgirl with her parents Carl and Eileen Tapsell when I first met her. Then a photo as she was about to leave home to marry me! Then Carole as Mrs Carole Holbeck immediately after our wedding at All Saints church Booval, Qld. Then a selfie photo as we rested while touring the Hunter Valley Gardens at Pokolbin perhaps a year or so before cancer struck its final blow on her mortal body. Greatly admired, respected and loved! AND OH SO DEEPLY MISSED! Still in awe of this Very Special Person, Jim

Carole just before leaving her home to be driven to the church to marry me!

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376. Perfect Love Casts Out Fear. Reading 1 Jn 4:13-21. My Sermon preached at the Healing Service in St Andrew’s Cathedral Sydney on Wed 9th August 2000.

[NOTE: While I was searching for a file on my computer I came across this sermon from August 2000. In light of the huge build up in fear of various kinds throughout the world in recent years, I thought it might be helpful to consider the truths it contains for today as well. Here it is as preached on that occasion.]


Who or what do we fear? Fear comes so easily to us as humans. But there are many different types and degrees of fear. Is fear always a bad thing? In fact fear can be a positive emotion. It prevents us taking risks that could be destructive or fatal. Fear of crashing our car, prevents us from driving flat out on greasy roads. Fear of going bankrupt prevents us from gambling all our money. Fear in a positive sense can be appropriate in certain situations.


Mainly throughout the Bible, the one we need to fear is God Himself, or God’s representative. eg., in Deut 6:2, Moses warned the people, “fear the LORD your God as long as you live by keeping all his decrees and commands that I give you, and so that you may enjoy long life.” In Deut 31:13, he added that the children had to hear the law and obey it, and in this way, would learn to fear the LORD their God as they prepared to cross the Jordan to possess the promised land.

To fear God meant to give Him His rightful place . It meant to live with a sense of awe about Him. It meant to obey Him as part of one’s commitment and love for Him. In Deut 10:12, Moses joins both fear of God and love for God, in the one verse “And now, O Israel, what does the LORD your God ask of you but to fear the LORD your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul. “

This fear of God is not some pathetic cringing dread that we might have as we approach God. Rather it is a healthy sense of respect and awe we have as we realise we are approaching the Holy One, the Creator, the majestic Lord of the Universe and who has shown us that He loves us.


There is a fear that is inappropriate and wrong. Let’s look at a couple of examples where it was said to be wrong.page1image51328320

When the Israelites had come out of bondage in Egypt, they were afraid to go into the land the Lord had promised them, because they heard that the inhabitants of the land were big and strong. The Lord had promised them victory, but they were afraid to go in. Only Joshua and Caleb amongst the Israelites didn’t fear the people of the land. They feared God more than they feared the people in Canaan. The others Israelites feared people more they feared God, and did not obey Him. They missed out on the promise of God, of entering the Promised Land.

After the feeding of the 5000, Jesus sent His disciples in a boat across the lake. As the waves got bigger and they got more scared, Jesus came walking to them on the water. Their fear turned to sheer terror, and they cried out, “It’s a ghost.” But they didn’t need to be afraid. Jesus told them, “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.” Peter was so inspired by what he had experienced that he asked Jesus if he could walk across the water to Him. When Jesus told him to come to Him, Peter began to walk on the water. He was doing well until he looked away from Jesus to the waves. Fear came in and he began to sink, crying, “Lord save me.” Jesus caught him and said, “You of little faith, why did you doubt?” He had stepped out in faith, but had begun to look at the problem, the power of the wind and the seas, rather than to fulfilling the promise of Jesus to him, and fear took away his victory over the difficulties around him.

That’s the problem with fear. It makes you focus on the thing you are afraid of, rather than on the One who can overcome our fears. Job said something that we can readily identify with. He said in Job 3:25, “What I feared has come upon me, what I dreaded has happened to me.” The more we fear something, the more power we give it in our own lives. If we fear cancer, we can get so focussed on the possibility that we can bring it upon ourselves. If we fear becoming mentally ill the stress of watching for any symptoms of it can help produce it. Someone being introduced to another person can become so fearful of forgetting their name that they can’t focus on retaining the name in the first place. Fear paralyses us so that we don’t function properly.

We can get so afraid of failing that we get stressed out and do fail. We can program ourselves for failure. We can get so afraid of dying that we can get ill and perhaps even prematurely die. The writer to the Hebrews wrote that Jesus came to set free those who were held in slavery all their lives through their fear of death.

How many marriages must be bound up because a woman fears her mother in law, or a man one of his in-laws. How many spouses must be bound up because they fear rejection if they were to give themselves completely to their wife or husband. How many people hold back on a deeper commitment to God because they fear the consequences of a deeper commitment. In fear, they hold back and miss out on blessing.


We’ve been saying that there is a right kind of fear in which we have a healthy respect and a sense of awe towards God. When people don’t have that positive sense of fear, they can muck up their lives terribly. Think of the passage in Rom 1, where Paul writes that those who don’t fear God in the sense of giving Him respect, and who ignore His laws, place more importance on the creation than on the Creator. They do their own thing in rebellion against God. The end result from that lack of fear for God means that God lets them do their own thing. Thus 1:24ff, “God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. … even women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.” A right fear of God with respect for His laws and obedience to them, is a counter against evil.

In brief, we are to fear God and those who represent Him, such as in Rom 13 where Paul writes that if we do the right thing in life in obedience to God we have nothing to fear. However if we do the wrong thing, then we need to be afraid, “Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and he will commend you. For he is God’s servant to do you good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword for nothing. He is God’s servant, an agent of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer.”

How can we get rid of the wrong sort of fear?

i. By having the right fear of God and His representatives. When we try to get into the centre of God’s will we can build up a real confidence in God and in His love and protection for us. As the writer to the Hebrews put it, Heb 4:16) Let us therefore approach the throne of grace with boldness, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

(Heb 7:25) Consequently he is able for all time to save those who approach God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them.

(Heb 10:22) let us approach with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water.

Or as St Paul wrote about what Christ accomplished on the cross, (Eph 3:11) This was in accordance with the eternal purpose that he has carried out in Christ Jesus our Lord,(Eph 3:12) in whom we have access to God in boldness and confidence through faith in him.

Or St John, in 1 John 3:21 Beloved, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have boldness before God;

ii. By letting perfect love cast out fear.

What is perfect love? It is the love shown by those who live by the word of God. (1 John 2:5) but whoever obeys his word, truly in this person the love of God has reached perfection. By this we may be sure that we are in him:

Here John says it is the love shown in loving one another. (1 John 4:12) No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is perfected in us.

It is that agape love of God for us in Christ, and it means responding to that love, by receiving Christ as Saviour and Lord. There is no place for the wrong sort of fear, which is fearful of punishment, because Jesus took the punishment for our sins, not us. In Christ we are forgiven, we are free, not condemned, not expecting punishment. Where once there was fear of punishment, now there is love for God, because of His mercy and grace. As John wrote in (1 John 4:17-18) Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness on the day of judgment, because as he is, so are we in this world. There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love.

Perfect love is that agape love of God flowing into us and through us as God fills us with His Holy Spirit. Rom 5:5, for the love of God has been shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who is God’s gift to us.

iii. By asking Christ to be Lord of every situation in our lives. Instead of facing situations in our own strength, we ask Him to be our strength. Instead of relying on our own wisdom, we ask Him to give us the wisdom we need in every situation. Ps 25:14, “The LORD confides in those who fear him; he makes his covenant known to them.” He wants to share His plans with us.

David was one who feared the Lord, and he wrote in Ps 27:1, “The LORD is my light and my salvation– whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life– of whom shall I be afraid?” If God was on his side, he had nothing or no-one to fear.

Isaiah tells us how to tap into all the resources of God that we need, Is 33:6, “He will be the sure foundation for your times, a rich store of salvation and wisdom and knowledge; the fear of the LORD is the key to this treasure. “

The right sort of fear, the fear of God brings life and health, Prov 10:27, “The fear of the LORD adds length to life, but the years of the wicked are cut short.” Prov 14:27, “The fear of the LORD is a fountain of life, turning a man from the snares of death.”

The fear of the Lord leads to contentment in life, Prov 15:16, “Better a little with the fear of the LORD than great wealth with turmoil.” Prov 19:23, “The fear of the LORD leads to life: Then one rests content, untouched by trouble.”

The fear of the Lord leads to being able to receive God’s wonderful provision for our needs, Ps 34:9, “Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack
Ps 145:19, “He fulfils the desires of those who fear him; he hears their cry and saves them.”

Why is God so gracious to us, and why does He promise to meet our needs? Ps 103:11, “For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; … Ps 103:13, “As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him.”

What’s your need tonight? Is it to be free of fear of people or situations? Then Christ can set you free.

Is it to receive some blessing or healing? Then God has promised to bless those who rightly fear Him, love Him, trust him and obey Him. As St Paul wrote of God’s willingness to give, (Rom 8:31) “What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? (Rom 8:32) He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all–how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?”

Blog No.376 posted on Monday 04 January 2021.

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375. Ephesians1:3. Thanking God For What We Have In Christ. [Part of the Epistle reading for this Sunday 03 January 2021]

Back in 2016 my wife Carole and I had just received the results of tests regarding an occasional mild haemorrhage she had experienced over several weeks which showed that her condition was extremely serious and indeed life-threatening. Our doctor gave us the news that Carole might live perhaps another two years but could die anytime! My response to this shattering news was to pray, and I began praying through Paul’s letter to the Ephesians. I began with the passage which is set for this coming Sunday 03 January 2021. Following his greeting to the believers in Ephesus, Paul wrote one long sentence in the Greek text that goes from verses 3 to 14. ( I originally thought that I would look at the following passage from verses 3 to 6. But as you will see I was impacted by incredible truths just in verse 3.)

(3) “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, (4) even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love (5) he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, (6) to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved.” 

SOME AMAZING TRUTHS in Ephesians 1:3.  God has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places.

Paul began verse 3 with a blessing – to God! He is about to describe the blessings God has bestowed on His people. However he begins the passage with his focus on God as the One who blesses, before he begins to elaborate on the blessings God bestows. (It’s always a good thing in prayer to focus on the Lord in praise and adoration before we begin to speak to others about His blessings.)

We see a wonderful link in this verse.

* “Blessed” in “Blessed be God” is the Greek adjective (eulogētós).

*The phrase “Has blessed us” is from the verb (eulogéō) and

*The “blessing” in “every spiritual blessing” is the noun (eulogia). The words all come from a common root. What a blessed verse this is! We are blessing the One who has blessed us with blessings!

Does this sound familiar? We find a similar expression used in the call of Abraham in the Septuagint Greek version of the Old Testament.  Gen 12:1 “Now the LORD said to Abram, “Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. 2 And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you (eulogéō) and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing.” (eulogētós, an  adjective from the verb (eulogéō). The people of God are blessed by Him to be a blessing to others. We note that they are the same Greek words used in Ephesians 1:3.

God had another promise of blessing for His people in Gen 12:3, “I will bless those who bless you (both are from the verb eulogéō) and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed” (eneulogéō from en = in and eulogéō, meaning to bless in or through someone). He was promising to bless those who blessed His people and that through His people the whole family on earth would be blessed.  That was God’s declared purpose. It meant on the other hand that those who frustrated His purpose by dishonouring His people would come under His curse.

We see that it is incumbent on the people of God throughout all the ages to fulfil their God-given responsibility by living for God in the way He intended them to live. If they do, God can bless them by working through them to bring blessing to the nations. If they fail to live as they should, multitudes miss out on His blessing.

St Paul had also painted a cosmic responsibility for the people of God in the letter to the Romans. Twice he wrote that the gospel message was to be spread throughout the world so that people of all nations could come to the obedience of faith. Rom 1:5 “through whom we have received grace and apostleship to bring about the obedience of faith for the sake of his name among all the nations”, and Rom 16:25 “Now to him who is able to strengthen you according to my gospel and the preaching of Jesus Christ, according to the revelation of the mystery that was kept secret for long ages 26 but has now been disclosed and through the prophetic writings has been made known to all nations, according to the command of the eternal God, to bring about the obedience of faith.”  If the people of God shared the gospel message throughout the world and the people of other nations accepted the message, then they would all be able to participate in the promises of blessings God has prepared for His people throughout the world and throughout the ages.

Blessed with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places!

What sort of blessings are “spiritual blessings?” They contain, in the spiritual realm (as we have seen above), the incredible privilege of belonging to the people of God. They include all the other blessings that flow from that relationship. (More about that in possible later articles.)

Paul uses the word “spiritual” as a contrast to “material” in these verses. Rom 15:27  For …  if the Gentiles have come to share in their spiritual blessings, they ought also to be of service to them in material blessings. AND 1Cor 9:11  If we have sown spiritual things among you, is it too much if we reap material things from you? Recipients of spiritual blessings should feel obligated to make some material contribution to those who shared those blessings with them.

Another spiritual blessing is to be able to receive a deeper spiritual knowledge of the will of God. Eg., Col_1:9  And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, AND 1Cor 2:13  And we impart this in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the Spirit, interpreting spiritual truths to those who are spiritual. 

Spiritual songs are part of the spiritual blessings God gives to His people. Eph_5:19  addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, AND Col_3:16  Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. Such songs are inspired by the Spirit and are used in expressing our praise to God and to encourage others in worship.

Spiritual gifts are also part of the spiritual blessings. Paul mentions them in these verses, Rom 1:11  For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to strengthen you— AND 1Cor 12:1  Now concerning spiritual gifts, brothers, I do not want you to be uninformed”. AND 1Cor 14:1  “Pursue love, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts, especially that you may prophesy.” A spiritual gift enables us to live and to minister beyond our natural resources. God gives us gifts to enable us to fulfil His purpose for us as we seek to live for Him. He also gives them so that others are blessed through our exercise of those spiritual gifts.

It seems that even in this one verse Eph 1:3, we have enough to turn into prayer. We will have lots of opportunities to look further into the blessings God has given us in Christ as we journey through this the rest of this epistle. But now is the time for prayer.


“Heavenly Father, we thank You for all You have done for us in Jesus. We thank You for all You have given us in Him. We thank You that You have blessed us in Him with every spiritual blessing. We thank You that through faith, we are the children of Abraham and that we have been blessed by You to be a blessing. 

Help us Lord to realise that this world is not about us, but that it is about You. It’s about Your purpose to bless the world in Your love. We thank You that not only are we the recipients of Your love but that we also have the wonderful privilege and responsibility of being instruments of Your love and blessings to others in this world.   

Grant us the wisdom to know Your will and the power by Your Spirit to do it so that we might fulfil  Your purpose for us. We ask these things in Jesus’  name. AMEN!”

Blog No.375 Jim Holbeck. Posted on Sat 02 January 2021.

{This is a modified version of the original post in August 2016. For those who not know my beloved wife Carole Ann Holbeck, nee Tapsell died of uterine and cervical cancer on 31st October 2019 but was wonderfully used by the Lord in the years from 2016 to her death in 2019.]

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374. A Prayer Based On 2 Peter 3:8-14. Being Prepared for Jesus’ Coming. [From the Epistle for 2nd Sunday of Advent, 06 December 2020.]

Nine years ago I wrote a blog containing a prayer based on the Epistle for the coming Sunday, the Second Sunday of Advent. [NOTE 1] Seeing the same reading is set again for Sunday 6th of December 2020, I thought I would revise the blog and the prayer.

In this passage from verses 8 to 14, St Peter outlines a number of important truths.

The Coming Day Of God May Appear To Humans To Be Delayed

 One great truth is that the “apparent” delay in the second coming of Jesus means that God is giving people a chance to repent of their sins and turn back to Him, “The Lord is not slow to fulfil his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.”3:9. One of the truths you learn as you grow older in the Christian faith is that God’s timetable is not the same as ours. God’s delays [according to our timetable] are part of His eternal purpose in His grace and love. His desire is that all should come to repentance and miss out on perishing for their sins.

The Coming Day Of God Is Certain To Come

Another truth is that the second coming is sure to come, and people need to be prepared for it. “Since all these things are thus to be dissolved, what sort of people ought you to be in lives of holiness and godliness. 3:11. “Lives” is [anastrophē; ἀναστροφή] meaning a manner of life or behaviour and such lives are to be based on holiness [hagios; ἅγιος ] meaning being set apart for God. “Godliness” is [eusebeia; εὐσέβεια which has the sense of being godly, like God in character. 

As they prepare for His coming His people need to be diligent to be found by Him without spot or blemish, and at peace. All these characteristics require a closeness of walk with God as they are not natural human characteristics. 

The Coming Day Of God Can Be Hastened As Believers Live As They Should.

There is also a surprising truth in these verses. “Waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be set on fire and dissolved, and the heavenly bodies will melt as they burn! 3:12. How can we as believers ‘hasten’ the coming of the King? The word for hasten is [speúdō; σπεύδω] which mean to hasten in time, to come more quickly, to come sooner or to hasten towards some objective, such as in this verse, the coming day of God. 

If all believers were to live as they should, it could have a greater impact of the unbelieving world and more of God’s elect could come into His kingdom sooner than otherwise might have been the case. However God being omnipotent knows the exact day and hour of His coming. Nothing takes Him by surprise. 

How can we play our part in becoming more holy and godly? How can we become more without spot or blemish and at peace? By asking God in prayer to make us more like that, and cooperating with His Holy Spirit as He seeks to make the necessary changes within us. One verse which helps us to understand what is involved in this inner transformation to become more like God is this from 2 Corinthians 3:18, “And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.” This means getting our focus right in life by focusing on the Lord Himself and beginning to reflect in our own lives, the object of our adoration and praise. As we do so, God Himself by His Spirit, begins to transform us more and more into Christ’s likeness. As Jesus was transfigured on the mountain before His disciples, so we can know an ongoing transformation by the Holy Spirit for the same word [metamorphóō; μεταμορφόω ] is used for transfiguration and for transformation. 

The final part of the verse [For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.] reminds us that to accomplish the will of God in our lives and to live for Him, requires that we allow His Holy Spirit to do His transforming work in our hearts as we open them wide to Him.

A Prayer To Pray

“Heavenly Father, I thank You that at His first coming, Jesus came and died, so that I might have forgiveness and eternal life by receiving Him. As I prepare for His second coming in power and glory, enable me to become the person You want me to be.

Fill me with Your Holy Spirit, so that I might become more holy, more godly, more at peace with You as I live for You in Your world.

Fill me with Your love, so that I might be motivated and empowered by Your Spirit to live the life, to talk the talk and to walk the walk You want me to.

Enable me by Your Spirit to help others come to repentance and faith in You, so that they too might be ready for His coming in glory. In Jesus’ name I pray. AMEN”


NOTE 1. Blog No.052. Posted on Saturday 17th December 2011

Blog No.374 posted on Friday 06 December 2020.

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373. Failing To See The Obvious. Again! The Words Solstice And Armistice. And A Personal Note!

When you reach 85 years it is nice to have some warmer weather and longer daylight hours. That got me thinking about the summer “solstice” when the sun “pauses” over the Tropic of Capricorn [thus the day with longest daylight hours here in Australia] before it begins its northern journey to the Tropic of Cancer which brings our day of shortest daylight hours or the winter solstice.

Funny word that, “solstice.” What is its origin? “Sol” is obviously “sun,” but “stice?” Fancy that! It goes back through different forms in different languages to a primitive form in Greek [stao] meaning to stand. So the solstice is the time when the sun appears to “stand still” before it reverses its journey northward again. Oh dear! A quick investigation revealed that words like staunch, staunchion, stadium and even the Greek word for the cross [stauros, a stake] seem to come from that same primitive [sta] root. [Perhaps the father of the bride in “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” was right after all!]

But the word “Armistice” came to mind as I entered Armistice or Remembrance Day. Could there be a connection? Guess what! The “arm” means arms or weapons and the [stice] means standing still. At 11am on the 11th day of the 11th month in 1918 the Armistice was signed and the arms [weapons] stood still, they ceased to fire. What a joy that must have been for my father as a soldier in the Australian Army who had been engaged in bloody warfare in France and Belgium since 1916, and to millions of other people as well throughout the world.

A bit more personal

All this was going through my mind as I posted online another blog No 372 on my blogsite [www.jimholbeck.blog] moments after Armistice [Remembrance] Day arrived today. It was called “Remembering Remembrance Day. A personal note.” I mentioned in it that Remembrance Day is of special significance to me, for Carole’s Thanksgiving Service was held at 11am on Remembrance Day last year and we observed the customary one minute’s silence as we began her Service of Thanksgiving after her death from a long term cancer just 11 days previously.

[Perhaps an added significance for Remembrance Day occurred just now [11th November] for me for all future Armistice or Remembrance days on the 11th November every year. I just answered a phone call a few moments ago from my daughter in Victoria to say that her father in law passed away today in Melbourne after a massive stroke a short time ago. He was greatly loved and like Carole will be deeply missed!]

In the providence of God, there are just so many things and such wonderful loving people for which and for whom we should be deeply grateful in life! It pays to remember! We WILL remember! We shan’t forget!

Blog 373. Failing To See The Obvious. Again! The Words Solstice And Armistice. And A Personal Note!73 posted on http://www.jimholbeck.blog on Monday 16th November 2020.

[This was previously posted on my Facebook page on Armistice {Remembrance} Day on 11th November 2020.]

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