331. Ephesians 4:25-32. Encouragements To Live As A Christian. God’s Advice In How To Do It! [In The Series “Praying Through Ephesians.”]

Posted on November 25, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

In this final part of Ephesians 4 we find that God, through Paul, gave instructions designed to help believers to “love our neighbours as ourselves.” He reminds his readers that “we are members of one another” in the body of Christ! He also gives a number of prohibitive commandments to encourage them not to hurt other people. It contains some positive affirmations and commands showing how true Christian love can be expressed.

One can notice in the passage an emphasis on the need for correct speech towards others. It also warns about the damaging effects of out of control emotions. The passage concludes with an encouragement to be kind, tender-hearted and forgiving towards others. [Like God is to us.]

[A more detailed study at the end of the article will more meaning to different parts of the passage and give an added depth to our understanding of the grace of God towards His creatures.]

THE PASSAGE FROM EPHESIANS 4:25-32

[ESV] “Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbour, for we are members one of another. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil. 28 Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labour, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. 29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamour and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

A SIMPLE PRAYER BASED ON EPHESIANS 4:25-32

“Dear Lord, You have told us to be real in all our relationships with our fellow believers. We thank You that You give us the grace to overcome the temptations of the devil so that we can have victory over anger, covetousness and laziness. Help me to make a positive contribution to my fellow believers in what I do for them and in what I say to them and about them. Enable me by Your Spirit to be able to say the right thing, to the right person, at the right time, with the right motivation, in order to edify them and build them up spiritually.  

I thank You that You have sealed me with Your Holy Spirit for eternity and I pray that by Your Holy Spirit’s power I may put aside all negative emotions and negative speech. Empower me by Your Spirit to show forth kindness and tender heartedness whilst forgiving all others in the same way that Christ has forgiven me. I ask these things in Jesus’ name. AMEN”

A QUICK OVERALL VIEW OF EPHESIANS 4:25-32

1]. Be in control of your speaking. Eph 4:25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbour, for we are members one of another.

2]. Be in control of your emotions. Eph 4:26  Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger,

3]. Be in control of yourself. Don’t let Satan control you! Eph 4:27  and give no opportunity to the devil.

4]. Be a giver, not a taker in relationships. Eph 4:28  Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labour, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.

5]. Be one who builds up other people, not one who destroys them. Eph 4:29  Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

6]. Be open to the Holy Spirit. Don’t grieve Him. Eph 4:30  And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.

7]. Be willing to remove all negativity [in attitudes, words and actions] from your life. Eph 4:31  Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.

8]. Be kind and forgiving, like God Himself. Eph 4:32  Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

A MORE DETAILED STUDY OF EPHESIANS 4:25-32

Eph 4:25 “Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbour, for we are members one of another.”

We have an obligation to one another to speak the truth to them, because we belong to the same body of Christ. It is assumed that we should put away falsehood [from pseudos; ψεῦδος] and should make it a habit to [keep on] speaking the truth with one another. [“Speak” is a present imperative verb denoting continuous or habitual activity.] Jesus spoke in very strong language of the danger of lying and falsehood as He accused His hearers of being of the devil and following him, ”You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” Jn 8:44. As verse 27 in this Eph 4 passage infers ,one can open the door to the devil by engaging in lying and falsehood.

Eph 4:26 “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger”

The word for “be angry” is [orgizō; ὀργίζω] and can mean to provoke to anger or be provoked.  One translation puts it, “In your anger do not sin.” It is probably true to say that that everyone gets angry or get angered at times, but they don’t have to give way to it. Instead of dwelling on the situation in which they are angry or angered, people can take their time reflecting on it, hopefully getting it into perspective and dealing with it in a positive way before sleep sets in.

Eph 4:27 “and give no opportunity to the devil”

Literally it reads, “give no place to the devil.” ‘Opportunity’ here is [topov; τόπον] meaning simply a place or a space. One is to allow no space for any interference or influence from the devil who is wanting to take advantage of one’s uncontrolled emotions.  We see in this passage that speaking  falsehood [telling lies] and losing control of one’s anger is making a space for the devil to bring undesirable influences to bear on a person.

Eph 4:28 “Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labour, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.”

Believers are to be givers not takers! They are to make positive contributions to those in genuine need and not simply be on the take for themselves.

 Eph 4:29 ”Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”

Watching the mouth gate. The word for “corrupting” [sapros; σαπρός] can mean rotten or decaying or worthless. By contrast, speech is mean to be good or beneficial [agathos ἀγαθός] as well as good for building up [oikodomē; οἰκοδομή] where this latter word means strengthening or edifying. As I noted above, it means giving the right word, to the right person, at the right time, from the right motivation, for the purpose of bringing God’s grace to those who hear it.

Eph 4:30  “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”

The Holy Spirit is a person who indwells every believer and seals every believer with His presence.  ‘Sealed’ is from [sphragizō; σφραγίζω] denoting the process of sealing by the Holy Spirit as a mark of ownership and permanence.  The Holy Spirit as a person is able to be grieved. Grieved by inappropriate words, timings and motivations which may be contrary to the Spirit. The Spirit is grieved when apparently ‘right’ words are said but where the motivation behind them is to flatter, deceive or manipulate the conversation for one’s own personal advantage.

Eph 4:31 “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamour and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.” Negative emotions such as bitterness, wrath and anger give rise to negative speech such as clamour, slander and malice. They all have to be lifted up [the meaning of the verb airō; αἴρω], put away or removed. Paul recognised the danger of bitterness and what it could lead to in terms of words and actions. The writer of Psalm 73 had already written about bitterness, [Psa 73:21 “When my heart was grieved and my spirit embittered, 22 I was senseless and ignorant; I was a brute beast before you.” Psalm 73:21-22. Bitterness destroys people’s sense of right and wrong. It twists their perception of reality. The sense of instability and explosiveness of bitterness can be seen in a modern adaption of the Greek NT word [pikria; πικρία]. As a former Government Industrial Chemist I came across a chemical called “picric acid.” It was known both for its “bitter” taste and especially its very high instability and its explosive nature [having been used as an explosive before the First World War.] A person deliberately harbouring bitterness can become emotionally unstable and often explosive in nature just like the acid itself.

Eph 4:32 “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” The positive steps to take.

  • ‘Be kind’ is from [chrēstos; χρηστός] meaning easy, good and gracious. It is used of God Himself in being kind “for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil” Lk 6:35 and in Romans 2:4, “not realizing that God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance?” 1Peter 2:3 declares, “now that you have tasted that the Lord is good.” God is good, and we are meant to draw upon His goodness as we ask Him to fill us with the presence of His Holy Spirit.
  • “Tender hearted’ [eusplagchnos; εὔσπλαγχνος] from [eu; εὖ] meaning good or well and [splagchnon; σπλάγχνον] meaning bowels, compassion or deepest feelings. It is the healthy emotion coming from one’s inmost being as one is filled with the presence of the Holy Spirit.
  • “Forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave you.” The word for “forgive” here is a very interesting word with a very deep concept behind it. The usual word for forgive is [aphiēmi; ἀφίημι ] meaning to loose or to free from. However the word here in verse 32 is [charizomai; χαρίζομαι based on charis; χάρις = grace] which has the meaning to act in grace towards someone, to bestow an unearned or an undeserved gift. God acted that way in forgiving us, so we are to act in the same way in forgiving our fellow humans. We gift them with something [our forgiveness] they could never deserve or earn.

That brings us then to the end of Chapter 4 of Ephesians. We have the text above, followed by a prayer based on that text. Then a brief overview of the passage before we engaged on some deeper truths found in the passage. I hope the above material may be helpful.

Blog No.331. Posted on www.jimholbeck.blog on Monday 25th November 2019.

 

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330. A FURTHER TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED WIFE CAROLE ANN HOLBECK. 1943-2019

Posted on November 11, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

I wrote this the night before my late wife’s Thanksgiving service in Port Macquarie on Monday 11th November. Because there were massive fires throughout the state of NSW, it meant that a lot of folk who wanted to come to the service, could not do so. This article is to share with them some memories of Carole I would have wanted people to know. I wrote a Tribute to Carole not long after she passed on to be with the Lord. This is to be found on my blogsite www.jimholbeck.blog article number 329. This later article may fill in some of the gaps.

Seemingly insignificant incidents sometimes have great meaning and outcomes

When Carole first began to come to CMS [Church Missionary Society) League of Youth (nothing to do with Communism) meetings and camps I was delighted to see her there, as I had a lot of a lot of admiration for her known achievements for winning prizes in the big Ipswich eisteddfods of that era. There was also her formidable guiding and sporting achievements. At one camp held at the Gold Coast there was a BBQ on the beach. One had to join a queue to receive one’s bread and sausage. Strictly only one serving per person initially! There was a disadvantaged young fellow there, so I decided to collect mine and give it to him and then rejoin the queue. I did and as I arrived back with the meal to give to the young fella I found that Carole had had the very same thought and had beaten me to it! I remember thinking, “Wow! What a thoughtful classy young woman. She seems to put the needs of others above her own.”  I discovered that this was not one isolated event. She did self-effacing considerate things ALL the time. A little incident, but it had a major impact on me! I noticed what she had done! I also noticed just who had done it! ( I obviously REALLY noted who had done this act of kindness.) Small incident! Massive eternal outcomes!

Carole gave her life completely to the Lord at a youth camp in Toowoomba. I had been absent for the meeting because of another appointment. When I returned she was there to tell me the good news.  She told me much later that she felt she should tell me first because I was the Leader of the group and because I had been kind to her. That touched me more deeply than I realised it could possibly do. Could this intelligent, multi-talented, popular, beautiful young woman ever get to like someone ordinary like me?

At one of our Ipswich youth meetings I asked her to do the reading for the night, knowing it would be read beautifully with feeling.  She agreed to do so, even at very short notice. But her face paled a bit when she opened the Bible and found it was the story of the woman of Samaria, a reading of some 42 verses! I discovered that she would do anything for the Lord, even at very short notice! But later on, from time to time she would remind me of the incident with a smile which read, “Don’t you ever do that again!”

An incident in my own life impacted very much later on Carole’s as well. I had been invited to a Leaders in Renewal Conference in Canterbury UK. It was a significant conference. Some who had come to the previous conference had later been martyred for their faith. Some present at this conference had risked their lives in coming. Carole and I at the time were facing our own smaller challenge. We were moving from Armidale to Sydney diocese which had a reputation, in some quarters, for being unfriendly to outsiders coming into the diocese.

When we were asked at the end of the conference to consider what we felt the Lord had said to us during the conference, I thought something like this. GOD has commanded us to love each other with Christ’s love. That is my responsibility. The other person is meant to do the same. If I am faithful in seeking to love the other person with Christ’s love and they reject me, that is their problem, not mine. I am still to keep on reaching out in love to them. The accompanying thought was this, it is only “hurting people” who hurt others. If they were healed or whole, filled with the love of God, they would not hurt others.  In other words, when people hurt others, they do so from weakness rather than from strength! They are not to be feared but to be loved. They need help and healing! Carole said she found this liberating in her contact with the many people with whom she had to associate. It meant we had a common attitude and approach to those who were nasty, antagonistic or simply indifferent to us. We were to discover that it did work in practice!

Carole always had a great ability to work with volunteers and with old established groups like the Ladies Guild, even when she was a young clergy wife in her 20’s. At one Guild meeting a very prickly older member showed off some unbreakable cups she thought they should buy for the Guild. With a confident cry, “Look at this!” the woman cast one of the cups to the floor. The unbreakable cup showed its true colours! It shattered all over the floor! Carole contained herself until a couple of other members burst out laughing.  She could not control herself any longer as the whole group roared with laughter. Fortunately after a few seconds, the woman herself joined in. The prickly woman had noticed that Carole had not initially burst into laughter, but had exercised some restraint.  She was later to become a great admirer of Carole and a close friend.

Carole was always looking around to find someone in need to help. When she was in Royal Prince Alfred hospital in Sydney for a thyroid operation she was well enough to observe the care being given [or not given] to the other 5 patients in the ward. One of the patients was a Muslim woman who spoke no English. Because she couldn’t communicate with the nursing staff Carole would bring them up to date on the woman’s situation. It meant the woman recognised that Carole was responsible for getting the care she had previously missed out on. As the Muslim woman left the ward to go home, she came across to Carole, took both her hands and intimated that she would pray for her. Astonishingly when Carole was leaving the ward to go home some days later, the nursing staff came to say their goodbyes and to thank her for all the help she had been to them during her stay. Unusual I thought! But very understandable! [No nurse ever wants to be accused of neglect of patients even in frantically busy  wards.]

In her final days on earth Carole continued to live by her motto, not to use people for her own personal advantage. That applied to her time in hospital. Instead of contacting the nursing staff to help get her to the bathroom, she tried not to disturb them. That led to a number of falls. One wise nurse eventually managed to change Carole’s mind by saying it was their job to get her there and back, not hers, and she was actually making their job harder. Carole always knew the protocols and knew they were right. In humility, she capitulated.  She had after all taught OH&S for several years before her retirement.

In the last few days of her life Carole was barely able to communicate. After trying to talk to her without getting any sort of response, I would sit in silence beside her, waiting to see any movement or hear any word. Nothing happened! Suddenly a day or two before her death, she spoke clearly! One word, “Shuttlecock” [a form of badminton.] We had only played a few games together in our marriage, but it was a game she and her parents would play at her home in the late afternoons. It seemed to me that she had been recalling moments of her childhood. Of her beloved parents. Whom she knew she was soon to join!

I have always been filled with utter admiration for the woman she was, and later became. What an amazing woman! What an amazing faithful friend! What an amazing contribution she has made to the lives of all of us who knew her. What amazing contributions she made to the lives she touched, whom we may never meet! But they will be there, like us, to thank her when she greets us with Him in His presence!

The writer of Proverbs 31 asked the question, “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” I can answer the writer’s question with, “Halleluia, I found one! Praise the Lord that He brought us together for almost 54 years of marriage, and ultimately, for ever!” God is good! All the time!

Blog No.330. Posted on http://www.jimholbeck.blog on Monday 11th November 2019.

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329. A Tribute To A Wonderful Godly Woman. Carole Ann Holbeck. My Late Beloved Wife and Very Best Friend

Posted on November 3, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

Carole’s Early days

Carole was born Carole Ann Tapsell in Kharagpur in India in 1943. She was the daughter of Carl Tapsell the famous hockey player who had received Gold Medals for India in the 1932 Olympics in Los Angeles and in the 1936 Olympics in Berlin. He is acknowledged as being the world’s first penalty-corner goal-scoring specialist in the game. He was tipped to be the Captain for the Indian team for the London Olympics in 1948. Her mother was Eileen Slaney who had lived all her life in India as part of the British Raj. A forebear had been Lord Mayor of London but many of the family came in very early days to India in the Army and others came to help establish railway systems in India. What led her father to bring his family to Australia in 1947? It was the year of the partition of India into India and Pakistan. There was much unrest at the time. As he followed one of his teammates off the field at the end of a game, a young woman ran up to present this teammate with a bunch of flowers. But among the flowers was a knife which she plunged into his heart. He died in front of Carole’s father. It was time to leave.

Carole’s family came by ship and there was a foretaste of things to come. Twice Carole was found on the outside of the ship’s rails! An adventurous spirit even at four years of age! They eventually flew from Melbourne into the Brisbane airport at Archerfield.  Then to Ipswich where Carl worked for and later helped the famous Hancock’s sawmill’s hockey team to unprecedented victories. Carole in the meantime was not well and her mother was advised to let her go to a higher altitude in Toowoomba to board at the Glennie School for girls. She remembered not being bullied as the youngest girl in the school but rather being spoilt! She also remembered vividly her father at a later time, sitting at their kitchen table with young hockey players talking about game strategies. [One of those young players finished up not only playing for Australia but also becoming a successful coach for British and Australian Olympic Hockey teams.]

School years

She returned to schooling at the Ipswich Central School (she was disappointed recently to miss the 62ndanniversary of year 8 leavers.) Then later on to Ipswich Girls Grammar School. It was during this time that I first heard the name Carole Tapsell. Everyone in Ipswich had of course heard of her father Carl. But she had done art of speech and on Saturday mornings on the local radio station 4IP some selected students recited over the radio. I remember hearing this beautiful melodious voice from a girl named Carole Tapsell whom I assumed was Carl’s daughter. She had won numerous Eisteddfods.  Later I began to hear and read about her exploits as a Girl Guide and as a sportswoman in swimming, tennis, netball and athletics. I vividly recall seeing a photo in the local Qld Times Newspaper of her as the Sports Captain of the school leading a march past of IGGS athletes at an Athletics Carnival and thinking at the time,” What an attractive girl!” Her school blazer pocket listed some of her achievements. She also became a sprint champion at the Qld GPS Athletic championships in Brisbane. unnamed

When Carole left school, she went to Kelvin Grove Teacher’s College where she became the female student rep on the College Council. She also received a scholarship to do a Diploma in Phys Ed at the University of Qld. It was about this time that I entered the Tapsell scene. Her parents had been encouraged by their Rector to go by a bus he hired, to the Billy Graham Crusade. It was packed. So, he hired 2 buses the next night and dozens of parishioners gave their lives to the Lord including Carole’s mother. She became the main parish organist and taught Sunday School. I had just become a believer months before and began to go to the same parish. I finished up teaching at the same Sunday School and began to go to Carole’s parent’s home to talk about Sunday School etc. I was impressed with the daughter! She impressed me as a dedicated sportsperson and for her strong but lovely personality. She told me many years later that I had seen her in her school uniform at that time and had called her “licorice legs” because of the black stockings!  She got her own back in the end! Marriage!

Carole became an inspiring leader in GFS [a youth group for girls.] She later joined the CMS League of Youth young people’s group that I had been asked to lead. At a youth camp at Shannon Park in Toowoomba she gave her life fully to the Lord, under the ministry of Lance Shilton of Holy Trinity Adelaide. [So did about 90 plus other young people.] Because many did not have transport I would pick up many young folk to take to the meetings. Because she lived closest to the church she was the last to be picked up and the first one dropped off. But as the months wore on, something changed. She became the last to be dropped off!

Carole’s Teaching career

Carole graduated as a teacher and as a Physical Education specialist. She began to teach swimming in the Summer months at many Primary schools around Ipswich and Brisbane. She would have taught literally hundreds of children to swim over those years. In the winter months she moved into High Schools, again in the same Ipswich-Brisbane circuit. At the [Ipswich] Brassall High as it was then called, she trained a sprint relay team to break the State athletic age group record. At another High School in another very challenging part of Brisbane she was always invited into the Headmaster’s Office on Monday mornings to “discuss her programme”. It was a challenging time for Carole as he always looked her up and down in disturbing ways, so she learned to keep the desk between him and herself. When someone suggested she should complain to the Teachers Union, they discovered he was one of its leaders!

She also taught hockey which came to her naturally [she had not played at school but soon became a member of the University of Queensland A Grade hockey team when she began to play. She later became the coach and also selector for the Queensland Schoolgirls state hockey team.  [The last time I saw her play hockey was in Melbourne when she was playing in a lower grade competition in a team that had the barest allowable players on that day. It could have been 8 in her team to 11 in the opposing team. In 20 minutes, the score was 4 to nil. All goals scored by Carole as she weaved her way at high speed through the competition. From that point she was swamped with defenders and the final score was 5 to 4 in favour of the opposing side. [She was always tenacious in the face of opposition.]

Holbeck – Tapsell relationship

I mentioned before that Carole became the last person to be dropped off when I drove people home from our meetings. I realised I was besotted with her. She was very attractive. She was funny, meaning having a great sense of humour. She was fully committed to any task she faced. She loved people and wanted the best for everyone. She was someone whom I admired immensely. She had become a great friend whom I knew I could always trust. But how to tell her that I loved her? I didn’t ever want to hurt or disappoint her in any way. I always only wanted the best for her as she wanted the best for everyone. It happened one night after we had been to evening church together. Plucking up all my reserves of courage I said these passionate words of great love, “Carole, I think I’m beginning to like you!” Hardly the sort of passionate outburst that makes it into romantic novels! But I only wanted the very best for her. I didn’t want to spoil her life by loading her with a second or third best! She told me later that when we first kissed, she saw stars! I think I was shocked to discover that this wonderful person could love someone like me.

I went in 1964 to Ridley College in Melbourne to study theology. It was about 1700 km away from Ipswich, but Carole would visit my parents several times a week to encourage them. She also wrote many letters to me keeping me up to date on my parents as well as adding other local and church news. I returned home in August for a break between terms. We travelled together to Monto to visit my sister and brother in law who was the Rector there. As we returned to Ipswich I pulled up outside a little town called Esk. It was the 22ndAugust. There I proposed! Carole accepted!  We drove home to her place where her parents were delighted with the news. Her mother had always had a soft spot for me as a fellow teacher in Sunday school. Her father had known of me over the years from the newspapers as an Ipswich A Grade Rugby League player. He knew I had now come a believer and was pleased that I seemed to be “good” for his beloved daughter.

My father became ill soon after and died within days of a brain tumour. Carole [as well as other members of our family] was a great comfort to me in those very sad days. We eventually married months later on 22nd January 1966 just after she had finished her bond with the Qld Education Department. Then it was immediately off to Melbourne where we moved into a gracious old home which belonged to the College on The Avenue at Parkville. It was an experience in community living as we shared the house with 4 other married couples, two female Indonesian students who barely spoke English and a single fellow who occupied a tiny room that was once a maid’s room. One bathroom. One toilet. One electric stove. One coke [formerly heated coal] heater for heating water which we had to be on a roster to stoke up every day, some fellas being more reliable than others! But it was a great time and it helped prepare us for challenging times ahead. Carole began to teach as Sports Mistress at Lakeside High School at Reservoir on the northern outskirts of Melbourne. Because every child in Victoria becomes addicted to Australian Rules Football [AFL] from an early age, she had to encourage the boys to learn to kick a football which they did in every break. After her school day was over, we would go across the road to a large park where we would practise how to drop punt a football, do torpedo punts, drop kicks and pass AFL style. Then she would teach the boys at school, most of whom did not need much coaching.

It was pleasing that Carole commanded the respect of the almost entirely male student body in the college. She was the most gracious and helpful person you could ever find, but she stood no nonsense from anyone. When the house was eventually pulled down to be replaced by a modern building we moved to the garage at the back of the property. By garage I mean a single car garage. It had been big enough originally for one car, and had a little workbench that became our kitchen and then was cleared to become my study. The garage was enclosed at the front with a door and a window.   A wardrobe separated the front of the garage from what became our bedroom at the back. The only water available was to be found in a shared outside bathroom about 15 metres away.  For some reason the door had been cut so that the bottom of the door was about 2 feet from the ground and the top of the door was about my shoulder height. Not an ideal setup in a climate like Melbourne’s four seasons in one day climate! Our bed was a door mounted on bricks and a borrowed mattress completed our furniture arrangements. But Carole never complained one iota. She actually saw all this stuff as “fun!”

The Mt Gravatt, Brisbane connection

When I graduated from College we were invited to join the staff at a church in Gunnedah, NSW, and also the famous church at Holy Trinity, Adelaide. But because our surviving parents were aging we returned to Brisbane Diocese where we served at Coorparoo parish for 4 years before I was appointed as Rector of Mt Gravatt parish, where it seemed nobody wanted to go to. This too was a challenge. The Rectory was tiny. It had had only 2 bedrooms and was perched on a high bank on the crest of a hill above the main Brisbane to Sydney highway at that time. Noise and dust became our constant enemies!

The editor of Australia’s largest church newspaper paper came to interview us. He was clearly bothered by the noise and later wrote in the paper that the Rectory was the worst he had seen on the east coast of Australia and that he admired Carole’s tenacity in being willing to live there with 2 young children to care for! There was no church, just a hall that had to be set up every Saturday night! By the Rector and his wife! So, we would wheel our kids over to the hall in their prams, sweep the floor, set up the pews, and clean the toilets. Carole was amazing! She said one night with a smile as we were cleaning the toilets, ”Did we get our degrees just to clean toilets?”  Her attitude was that if it was all part of serving the Lord, then no hardship mattered. She was just grateful to be serving the Lord, no matter what! I don’t know if any other woman could have kept on rejoicing and being thankful to the Lord in the challenges she faced. With good humour!

Carole was faithful to the Lord but faithful too was the Lord! In the 6 plus years we were there, we saw the Lord at work in an amazing way. There was a small faithful band of praying women in Mothers Union. They were soon joined with Carole’s encouragement by a Young Members Department of Mothers Union which grew from a few to about 70 young women between the ages roughly 18 to 45. The Sunday School that Carole eventually led, grew to become one of the largest in the diocese. By the grace of God and with the help of believers from other churches, a new brick church was built and following that a brand-new brick Rectory as well.

The Armidale NSW connection

It was a different situation when I accepted the invitation to become the Dean of St Peter’s Cathedral in Armidale.  It was sad to leave what God was doing at Mt Gravatt, but we knew there was a wonderful young minister who would be able to replace us. So, we left with sad hearts saying Goodbye to all the friends we had made at Mt Gravatt.  Yet Carole believed that we should accept the invitation in spite of the wrench she would personally feel, as she would frequently say, “There is no blessing for anyone in being disobedient to God.”

The Deanery in Armidale was comfortable and ready to be lived in. It was a lovely Horbury Hunt designed building finished in 1891. We formed many wonderful friendships in Armidale which still persist although two of Carole’s closest Armidale friends passed away within the last couple of months. We saw another demonstration of the power of God as many folk were converted to Christ and filled with His Holy Spirit. A women’s luncheon organised by Carole during a John Smith God Squad Mission in Armidale drew over 700 women with others on a waiting list. Armidale was a wonderful city for our family in which to grow up over those 10 years in the parish. It was here in our later days in the parish that Carole began to teach part-time in TAFE in Child Studies.

The Sydney connection

We received an invitation to be interviewed for me to become the Rector of the parish of St Matthew’s Manly in Sydney. We were told later by one nominator that we had been accepted by the parish nominators and that the then Archbishop of Sydney had approved of their decision. But Diocesan Nominators also have a decision. They disapproved for whatever reason. Carole wasn’t disappointed or bitter. We were grateful to be able to remain in Armidale.  However, it was not long after that we received a request from the Healing Ministry at St Andrew’s Cathedral in Sydney to consider being a replacement for Canon Jim Glennon after his impending retirement. Carole said she didn’t mind me being approached because having been knocked back for a Sydney parish she thought it would be unlikely for us to be considered for a place on the staff of the Cathedral of the Diocese. To our surprise we were accepted and though Carole did not look forward to any separation from our kids, we felt it right to leave our two oldest kids at Boarding schools in Armidale and move to a Cathedral house at Cheltenham. It was gut wrenching for Carole because not only were our older two separated from us, but we had to find alternate accommodation for Carole’s mother who had been living with us in Armidale. The Cheltenham house on a steep slope could not accommodate Gran’s frailties. Fortunately, we were able to obtain accommodation for her at the Anglican Retirement Mowll Village where she had a real ministry in music and encouraging conversations with other residents.

I saw another depth to Carole’s resilience and patience when we discovered the house was not as prepared for us as it might have been. Mould beneath painted-over wallpaper was a health challenge. A window frame and window fell out because of rot, probably because the house appeared to be built over a water-course.  But she coped. She was offered a job in TAFE but only if she worked full-time. On her very first day she went by train and I got a call from her in the late afternoon to say she had dozed off on the train and had woken up some stations further on. It was a challenging time for her, but she was grateful for her job which she thoroughly enjoyed. After some months we were told that the Cathedral needed to sell the house and we needed to move elsewhere quickly.  Carole and I both thought that was rather unusual but again she coped, and we decided to move into the upper floor of the Healing Ministry Centre at Newtown. It was not an ideal situation, but it meant that Carole could have a more hands-on ministry among people she loved. It did mean about 39 steps up narrow staircases with the groceries, but so what! For Carole, people mattered more than personal difficulties.

I have mentioned some of the difficulties [not all] that Carole had to face because she never complained about them. I felt it right to mention them because failing to do so diminishes the grace of God she had to draw upon to cope as she did.  Carole would work all day and then come home to mingle with the Staff and guests at the Centre before having tea. Many guests who stayed at the Centre have written to say what Carole’s time with them meant to them personally.

Carole moved from serving as an Acting Head Teacher in Child Studies in TAFE NSW to becoming a Senior Head Teacher in the newly formed Health and Recreation unit at Loftus campus near Sutherland in the Sydney Institute of TAFE. During her time there, with the support of gifted teachers, the unit expanded to become the biggest of its kind in the nation and someone once suggested, possibly the biggest of its kind in the Southern Hemisphere.  Whether that is true or not, I don’t know. What I do know is that she received many awards for her leadership of her section and was once a runner-up for the Premier’s Award for all divisions of the Public Service, for her contribution to Vocational Education in New South Wales.

When she retired from TAFE in 2006 the farewell was the biggest they had ever had in the Section, such was the regard people had for her.  I found it personally interesting that the boss of that section in NSW personally came to the Farewell and said something like these words, “I have never come across someone who could network so well. She could network with the hierarchy above. She could network with her peers and she could network with her students.“  That was true but there was an answer. It is called Christian [agape] love. She wanted to seek the best interests of everyone, which is what Christian agape love is all about. She wanted her bosses to look good and not make problems for them. She wanted her teachers to be the best by encouraging them to do all the courses they wanted to do and by arranging the best timetable for them personally. She wanted her students to receive the best education they could possibly obtain through her section. That meant going to TAFE to supervise a final examination during a Teachers’ strike. For that she was black-listed by the Union with her name and photo displayed on the main College notice board with adverse comments! But she knew the students would have been severely disadvantaged by not completing their exams on that date. Care for students overrode any concern for criticism she might receive!

Her love for people showed itself in every area. A baker in the busy shopping centre of Newtown was touched that she came back next day to thank her for the beautiful bread rolls they had baked for a BBQ at our Healing Ministry Centre. Whenever she went into that shop from that time on, she was greeted warmly, and was offered free food which she almost always declined to take. Her motto was, “Don’t ever use people for your own benefit!” Across the street was the biggest Hot Chicken vendor in the region. Whenever the owner saw Carole in the busy shop, he would come out from behind the counter to greet her personally and to give her a big hug. I never saw him do it to any of his other customers!

When we both retired in 2006, there was a special farewell to Carole from an unexpected group. It was in Sydney Park, a massive park near Newtown where Carole used to walk our dog Geordie in the late afternoons and at weekends. They knew she was the wife of a minister at the Cathedral, but she had endeared herself to them by taking a genuine interest in them and by getting to know the names of all their dogs. Some 70 folk with numerous more dogs turned up to wish her well.  There were people there from all levels of society and their love and admiration for her was tangible. I was amazed that in a very short time she had touched their hearts so deeply. Then I remembered how she had touched my heart so deeply. Suddenly it all made sense. Here was an embodiment of Christlike love that I had enjoyed for decades.  In Carole! Through Carole!  For them as well!

Well this has been a very emotional time writing this less than 48 hours after Carole departed this life for a better place, to be in the presence of Christ her Saviour and Lord.   This is only part of her story. There are so many other things about her I could have written. But I am so grateful to God for having met her and for every remembrance of her. As Job wrote in Job 1:21 ”The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.” Or as I might say, “Blessed are You Lord for creating such a woman as Carole and for allowing me to love her and to receive her love for all these 54 plus precious years. Praise and thanksgiving be to You, Oh Lord!”

Blog No. 329 Posted on www.jimholbeck.blog on Sunday 3rd November 2019

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328. Solving Some Of Rugby Union’s Problems. For Future Rugby World Cups and International Tests

Posted on September 30, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

In a recent blog I made suggestions for simplifying the rules for when a ball-carrying player is injured by a defender of the opposing team in the game of Rugby Union. [This is an amendment of that article No 322.] Having watched some of the 2019 Rugby World Cup games in Japan, I think my suggestions have merit.

In the previous article I commented, “Does Rugby Union have a problem? Yes, it has one that comes from their attempt to make the game safer for its players. But perhaps inadvertently it has made the situation worse.”

I saw two problems that needed to be addressed.

The First Problem Was The One To Do With Crowd Support. [Duty Of Care For The Supporters.]

I thought of many games when players were sent off for ten minute periods for yellow card offences, and for the rest of the game for more serious red card offences. Games in which this happens, lose their purpose and meaning.

The purpose of a test match between two nations is to have a competition where the best players of each nation seek to have a victory over the same number of players of the other nation by using superior skill-sets, better kicking, attacking and defending skills and often a more clever use of power.

The fans are best served by having full number of players on the field throughout the match. Otherwise it becomes an uneven and ultimately disappointing contest for the fans. If these send-offs are to continue to happen, then the support base for the game could seriously diminish. It could ultimately result in a loss of interest for young people in playing the game, and crippling financial losses as well.

The Second Problem Has To Deal With The Safety Of The Players. [Duty Of Care For The Players.]

Teams are chosen to represent the best team to overcome and defeat the opposition. That means there must be an equal number of players on the field at all times. Not only that, but the safety of the players must be paramount. That is why in world Rugby there has been a determined attempt to prevent or minimise head injuries of attacking players in tackles made by defending players. There are in place difficult criteria that seek to determine whether the tackle was lawful or unlawful and also whether the alleged illegal tackle was intentional or not. Those details are virtually impossible to ascertain in the moments following the tackle. And how can you determine the intention of any tackler anyway? There must be a better way.

Here are some of my suggestions to help save Rugby as a sporting and safer spectacle.

 A]. Intention cannot be proven. So scrap that part of the equation in determining the penalty for a perceived illegal tackle during a game. Consider these alternatives!

When a tackler makes what appears to be a shoulder charge and/or contact with the head [or above the shoulders] of the ballcarrier, then the following procedures should be put in place.

  1. Both the tackler and the person tackled should be forced to leave the field of play and the latter be examined for any symptoms of head injury. Reserves are brought on immediately to replace these 2 players to maintain a 15 a side contest. When that is done, a scrum should be formed and the attacking team at the time of the incident, should feed the resulting scrum.
  2. If the tackled player is deemed to be free of any head injury and is medically allowed to return to the field of play then that can happen. However the alleged illegal tackler has to remain on the reserve bench and can only be used as the final replacement later in the game if that is necessary.
  3. If the person who was tackled is unable to return to the field of play because a head injury is deemed to have occurred, then the tackler can play no further part in the game. If through a tackle someone is taken out of the game [regardless of whether it is deemed to be accidental or deliberate] then it is fair that the one who caused that to happen [the tackler] should also be taken out of the game.
  4. Reviews of the incident can be assessed more seriously and more leisurely following the game and any further penalties can be brought to bear if necessary, on the alleged illegal tackler.

B]. Advantages of the above process

  1. It maintains an even contest between two 15 a side teams for the entire match.
  2. It avoids the danger that come from having undermanned teams physically putting themselves at risk in seeking to overcome their deficit in player strength and numbers.
  3. It avoids the needless stoppages in play as endless replays of such incidents are played on the ground big screens. Fans come to see action football, not several replays of the same incident.
  4. It prevents the disadvantage of players cooling down waiting for some decision to be made as to the legality or otherwise of a tackle.
  5. It avoids the increasing anger of supporters when they begin to realise [or imagine] the severity and danger of a disputed tackle after watching several replays.
  6. It obviates the need to form a fair judgment during the duration of a match, on the intentionality or otherwise of any tackler.
  7. It allows longer periods of time to conduct reviews of disputed tackles. This should result in fairer outcomes for both the tackler and the player who was tackled.
  8. It avoids the difficulty for referees in having to make-on-the spot decisions regarding the intentionality of the tackler, the severity of the tackle and the appropriate penalty to be applied.
  9. It protects referees and other match officials from being unjustly accused of showing bias towards a certain team or player because they would now be seen to be applying a blanket rule that applies to both teams.
  10. It also helps ensure the continuing contribution to the game of Rugby, of quality referees because they are not having to make rapid value judgments and impose penalties in such incidents. It would show duty of care to referees if the responsibility of decision making on suspected illegal tackles was taken by a group of people who could assess such incidents in a more considered manner.

So there is my contribution to saving Rugby Union as a sport. The rules are simple and could be applied almost immediately.

  • It offers a real duty of care for the team supporters, so they get value for the money they have spent in following their team to often distant lands.
  • It offers duty of care for players in having evenly numbered teams contesting for success. It offers a fairer assessment of intentionality [if that is ever possible] and an easier way of ensuring players are immediately protected in disputed tackles.
  • It offers duty of care for referees and other match officials when contentious situations occur, to have such situations handled later by a group rather than by an individual.
  • It should also help reduce the number of illegal tackles in games as selectors would be hesitant to select players who infringe regularly when they play.

At a time when many former players of contact sports such as Rugby Union, Rugby League and American Football have been diagnosed as suffering from Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy [CTE] from repeated head injuries, these suggestions above could make a difference. There is nothing more excruciating than seeing a player who had received an obvious blow to the head in a tackle get up, shake his head, stagger a bit and then keep on playing. Such an incident occurred in a recent Rugby League match and questions were raised as to why the player was not immediately examined for a Head Injury Assessment. Duty of care for players, demands it should be mandatory to do so.

Real duty of care demands that any blow to the head should be taken seriously and immediate assessment for damage take place. My humble suggestions above, attempt to go some distance in making that provision.

Blog No. 328. Posted by Jim Holbeck on www.jimholbeck.blog on Monday 30th September 2019.

 

 

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327. Does Nature control the world? And Who controls the climate?

Posted on September 26, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

Nature! A beautiful thing. But a thing, not a person, nevertheless. There have been many attempts over the years to personify nature and to see it as a person with emotions etc. One of the latest attempts has been by the U.N. Secretary-General António Guterres opening the U.N. Climate Action Summit. Among many other things he said, “Nature is angry and we fool ourselves if we think we can fool nature because nature always strikes back and around the world nature is striking back with fury.” That is giving nature a whole lot of authority and power, to suggest that it can act independently of any other power.

His words actually highlighted what the Bible says about fallen humankind’s rebellion against God. Or the rebellion of creatures against their Creator. St Paul wrote of the fallen creation, “They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.” Rom 1:25. God Himself is meant to get the worship and the glory, not His creation! Nature [creation] is under the ultimate control of its Creator and Sustainer.

How should we see creation?

When we look at nature or creation, what are we meant to see? Obviously the United Nations Secretary General sees it almost as a powerful vengeful being whom one must not upset lest there be disastrous consequences. There many others who have similar views.

The truth is that when we view creation we are meant to recognise God’s handiwork in nature. It owes everything to Him. It should lead people to worship and adoration of Him. Creation points beyond itself to its Creator, YHWH God.  King David understood that. He wrote in Psalm19 these magnificent words describing how the creation witnesses to its Creator, “The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands. 2  Day after day they pour forth speech; night after night they reveal knowledge. 3 They have no speech, they use no words; no sound is heard from them. 4 Yet their voice goes out into all the earth, their words to the ends of the world. In the heavens God has pitched a tent for the sun.” Psalm 19:1-4. Without saying a word, nature or creation silently bears witness to an omnipotent Creator.

St Paul had previously described in Romans 1 what happened in the fall of humans and the consequences, “The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of people, who suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19  since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20 For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse. 21 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.” Romans 1:18-23.

Verses 21 to 22 above describe the following. Futile thinking! Darkened foolish hearts! Fools! Hardly a ringing endorsement for those in the higher levels of government and control in our world. Why? Because even though God has revealed himself in His creation they chose not to glorify Him as God nor give thanks to Him [failing to recognise their utter dependence on Him.]

The fall-out from the Fall of humankind is described in the remaining verses of Romans 1. It is not a pretty picture, but it illustrates that when one loses focus on the Creator God, one can be easily deceived and fall into evil of various types.

We would do well to note what God said to His people as they were about to enter the Promised Land. He wanted their unwavering commitment, as He demands of every human in every race in every generation. He urged them to “faithfully obey the commands I am giving you today—to love the LORD your God and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul— 14  then I will send rain on your land in its season, both autumn and spring rains, so that you may gather in your grain, new wine and olive oil. 15  I will provide grass in the fields for your cattle, and you will eat and be satisfied. 16  Be careful, or you will be enticed to turn away and worship other gods and bow down to them. 17  Then the LORD’s anger will burn against you, and he will shut up the heavens so that it will not rain and the ground will yield no produce, and you will soon perish from the good land the LORD is giving you. 18  Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.” It is the Lord who opens and closes the heavens. Nature doesn’t!  He is in control.

We close with the words the Lord spoke to Solomon at the Dedication of the temple, “When I shut up the heavens so that there is no rain, or command the locust to devour the land, or send pestilence among my people, 14  if my people who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land.” 2 Chron 7:13-14.

The answer to receiving the Lord’s blessing and avoiding severe “natural” calamities is to get back into a right relationship with our Creator God. He wants the best for His children and will protect the environment for them as they walk in obedience to Him. He will show them in His love what dangers exist and how they can play their part in dealing with them.  Seeking to find and apply human solutions without any consultation with the Creator [and indeed ignoring Him] is a lost and potentially dangerous cause.

My ongoing prayer in these days of increasing rebellion against God and the inversion of human values is this, “Lord, may YOUR kingdom come, and YOUR will be done.” Where His will is in contrast to the Climate Change extremists and to those espousing damaging socialist materialistic philosophies,  may HIS WILL be done and none other. Humbly we might add, “Lord, may YOUR will be done in me and by me and through me for the rest of my life! AMEN”

Blog No.327 posted on www.jimholbeck.blog on Thursday 26th September 2019

 

 

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326. Ephesians 4:17-24. Contrasting The Old Life With The New Life Christ Brings. [In the series “Praying Through Ephesians.”]

Posted on September 9, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

[In these days of increasing pressures in life I thought I would change the order in this article by having shorter sections at the beginning of the article. Such as, an introduction to the text we are looking at, the actual text and then a simple prayer based on that as we continue the series on praying through Ephesians. Following that are the results of a more detailed study of the passage. ]

A].       AN INTRODUCTION TO THE PASSAGE

In this section of the epistle Paul reminds his readers of the difference Christ makes when He is encountered and received into human lives. He does so by writing of the state of the Gentiles [non-Jews] who had not yet come to submit their lives to Christ. It is not a pretty picture. They may have been born in spiritual darkness but Paul emphases that they are culpable for their refusal to submit to Him.

By contrast, those who had come to trust in Jesus had become different. However to live as they should, required determined effort on their part. We will look later at this in more detail. First of all we look at the passage.

B].        THE PASSAGE. EPHESIANS 4:17-24

Eph 4:17 “Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. 18 They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. 19 They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity. 20 But that is not the way you learned Christ! 21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, 22 to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.”

C}.        A SIMPLE PRAYER BASED ON THE PASSAGE

“Heavenly Father, We thank You that when we heard the good news about You, You gave us grace to respond to Your love in Your Son, Jesus Christ. We thank You that You brought us out of the darkness of sin and ignorance and gave us victory over the things that previously dominated our lives. Strengthen us by Your Holy Spirit to give ourselves completely to You, so that we may become more like Christ-like in everything we say and do. We ask these things in the precious name of Jesus. AMEN.”

D].       A DETAILED STUDY OF THE PASSAGE. EPHESIANS 4:17-24

CHARACTERISTICS OF GENTILES. [Those who didn’t trust in Jesus]

  1. Gentile minds were futile. 4:17 “Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds.”

“Futility” in the original Greek language is the word [mataiotēs; ματαιότης]. It derives from [mátaios μάταιος] meaning empty or vain. It is found only here and in Romans 8:20, “For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope.” The following verse helps us understand some of its meaning, where Paul wrote, “that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God.” Rom 8:21. The creation is corrupt because of the Fall and so too are the humans by natural birth. Unregenerate humans’ minds are not what God created them to be.  They became empty of the true knowledge of God and thus their thinking was vain.

This is brought out particularly in Romans 1:21 where the verb form is used denoting the result of the Fall, “For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futilein their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.” [Note 1].

  1. Gentile minds were darkened in their understanding.18 “They are darkened in their understanding.”“Darkened” is [skotizō; σκοτίζω]. We saw in the previous paragraph how futility and darkness are associated with each other as they are in this verse. So we have a combination of futile thinking, foolish darkened hearts and darkened understanding.

John in John 1: 5 speaks of the darkness of the fallen world and that Christ [as the light of the world] had come to bring light to a world in darkness. “In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”Turning to Christ is the only way people can come from darkness into the light. When they do, they are no longer in darkness and they no longer have futile minds. As Paul wrote to the Corinthian believers, “But their minds were hardened. For to this day, when they read the old covenant, that same veil remains unlifted, because only through Christ is it taken away. 2 Cor 3:14.

  1. Gentiles were alienated from the life of God. 18 “alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them.” [“Alienated” is from the verb apallotrioō; ἀπαλλοτριόω.] However it is interesting that the verb is in the perfect tense, which stands for a past action with a present abiding result.

The meaning is that fallen humans [such as the Gentile and other unbelievers] are alienated from God and will remain so until they are enlightened and reconciled to God by receiving His Son as Saviour. Their “ignorance” of God also remains until they turn to Him.

  1. Gentile hearts were hardened.“due to their hardness of heart.” The Gentile ongoing ignorance was due to their hardness of heart. The word for “hardness” is known to many people in its English form. It is [pōrōsis; πώρωσις. The verb form “hardened” is pōroō, πωρόω] Thus osteoporosis is a hardening of the bones so that they become brittle.

In our English language we often refer to some people as being “hard- hearted.” In other words, they lack a sense of compassion and are unloving in their approach to others. It is a sad situation when the Person they are hard- hearted towards, is God Himself. Sad for them! Because of that they may not understand the purposes of God. We see that happening with Jesus’ own disciples. Mark records of them, “for they did not understand about the loaves, but their hearts were hardened.” Mk 6:52. Jesus censured them for failing to understand the significance of what was happening at that stage in His ministry, “And Jesus, aware of this, said to them, “Why are you discussing the fact that you have no bread? Do you not yet perceive or understand? Are your hearts hardened?” Mk 8:17.

Paul twice wrote of the hardness of the Jews in responding to Jesus and to the Christian message, In Rom 11:7 he wrote, “What then? Israel failed to obtain what it was seeking. The elect obtained it but the rest were hardened.” And as we saw above, in 2Cor 3:14 he wrote,“But their minds were hardened. For to this day, when they read the old covenant, that same veil remains unlifted, because only through Christ is it taken away.”

Hard hearts prevent compassion being shown by those who have them. They also inhibit understanding, especially of the purposes of God for His people.

  1. Gentile behaviour stemmed from callous hearts.19 “They have become callous”

The ‘plot thickens’ as they say. From hardness of heart we go to “callous.” This is a perfect participle of the Greek word [apalgeō; ἀπαλγέω] remembering that the Perfect tense of a verb demotes a past action with a present abiding result. It means that they had come to a stage where they lacked feeling, had become apathetic or beyond feeling. Not just hard but calloused! That is a pretty advanced form of hardness of heart. The problem is that it can lead to a declining sense of values as we see in the following phrases.

  1. Gentiles became sensuous. “and have given themselves up to sensuality”

It is amazing as you read these words to see the lengths people can go to in losing control of their lives. “Giving [themselves] up” is from the word, [paradidōmi; παραδίδωμι ]. It can mean to surrender to, to hand over, to deliver. For example, Paul used it three times of God “handing over’” those who rebelled against Him as their Creator, in Rom 1:24,26,28. He used it of Jesus as being handed over to fufil God’s purposes, “who was delivered upfor our trespasses and raised for our justification” Rom 4:25 and in Rom 8:32 “He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?” [NOTE 2]

So the Gentiles callously chose to give themselves up to “sensuality.” What is that? The word is [aselgeia;  ἀσέλγεια]. It is often translated as licentiousness, lasciviousness, wantonness, sexual excess or even perversion. It is one of the “works of the flesh” [or unregenerate nature] in Galatians 5:19. There are other apparent references to sexual excesses in the New Testament that use this word. [NOTE 3].

  1. Gentiles were greedy to practice every kind of impurity. “greedy to practice every kind of impurity.”

“Impurity“ [akatharsía; ἀκαθαρσία] is another of the works of the flesh in Gal 5:19 along with sensuality. Gentiles were greedy [really wanting] to practice [or work out] every sort of impurity. It refers to moral uncleanness as well as uncleanness in general. They were not greedy for purity but for impurity.

It is interesting to note that in the next chapter, both impurity and greed [covetousness ] are named as not being fitting for the believer, “But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.” 5:3.

Paul in Colossians 3:5, gave the reason, “Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.” Greed or covetousness is actually serving another god!

So how could the unbelieving Gentiles become free to live as the True God desired them to live? That is the question Paul now goes on to answer!

CHARACTERISTICS OF THE NEW [CHRISTIAN] LIFE. [Those who do trust in Jesus]

  1. The New Way of Living Is Based On Knowing Christ. “But that is not the way you learned Christ!— 21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus.” Coming to a true knowledge of Jesus is liberating.

The gospel is good news. It is the truth about who Jesus is and what He has done for humankind. The Ephesians had heard and responded to the gospel message and committed their lives to the Christ of the message. Paul reminds the Ephesian believers of their commitment to Jesus.

  1. The New Way Involves putting Off The Old [Unregenerate] Self. 22 “to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires.”

These believers had been made alive spiritually through Christ’s death, resurrection and ascension, “even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved 6  and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus”, Eph 2:5-6.  

They had become new creatures in Christ, [2 Cor 5:17.]

They had received the gift of the Holy Spirit to enable them to walk in the victory that Christ had accomplished on their behalf. That involved actively putting to death anything of the old self that surfaced and allowing the new self to be manifest in their lives.

  1. The New Way Involves Being Renewed In The Spirit Of Their Minds.23 “and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds.” The word “Renewed” is [ananeoō; ἀνανεόω] and surprisingly it is its only occurrence in the New Testament.

However a similar word rendered “renewal” is found in Rom 12:2, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind… .”It appears that such renewal is a process to valued and be pursued by all believers.

  1. The New Way Involves Putting On The New Self.24 “and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.”

To put on the new self, created in believers by the power and presence of the Holy Spirit, also requires a committed approach. It means living like Jesus, allowing our lives to be are inwardly transformed by the Holy Spirit as we open ourselves completely to Him. This is not some fake display of righteousness or holiness but the real thing.  It is true righteousness. It is true holiness. As Paul expressed his sincere aim to the Philippians, “and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith.”Phil 3:9. God’s righteousness was imputed to Paul as he trusted in Christ.

There is victory over ignorance and sin for every unbeliever. Entirely free! But it came at the cost of the life of the Son of God. There is no such thing as cheap grace. The Creator’s blood was willingly shed for His creatures. The victory  the unbelievers can obtain is found only in Christ. The Christ who knocks at the door of very human heart and says, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come into him and eat with him, and he with me.” Millions of unbelieving Gentiles have found that to be true over many centuries, the present writer among them.

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NOTES:-

[NOTE 1].  References to “futile.”

Rom 1:21 For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.

1 Cor. 3:20 – the lord knows that the thoughts of the wise are futile

1 Cor. 15:17  And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile and you are still in your sins.

1 Pet. 1:18. you were ransomed from your futile ways

[NOTE 2]. References to “deliver” or “hand over.” [paradidōmi; παραδίδωμι].

1 Cor. 5:5 you are to deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord.

1 Cor. 11:23 – “For I received from the Lord what I also delivered to you, that the Lord Jesus on the night when he was betrayed took bread.”

1 Cor. 13:3 –“If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.”

1 Cor. 15:24 –“Then comes the end, when he delivers the kingdom to God the Father after destroying every rule and every authority and power”

2 Cor. 4:11 – “For we who live are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh.”

Gal. 2:20 – “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.”

Eph. 5:2 – “And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.”

Eph. 5:25 –“Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

[NOTE 3] References to “sensuality.”

Rom. 13:13. Let us walk properly as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and sensuality, not in quarreling and jealousy.

2Cor 12:21.  I fear that when I come again my God may humble me before you, and I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual immorality, and sensuality that they have practiced.

2 Pet. 2:2. And many will follow their sensuality, and because of them the way of truth will be blasphemed.

2 Pet. 2:7. (Sodom and Gomorrah) and if he rescued righteous Lot, greatly distressed by the sensual conduct of the wicked

2 Pet 2:18. For, speaking loud boasts of folly, they entice by sensual passions of the flesh those who are barely escaping from those who live in error.

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325. What God Really Wants To Do Through His Church. His Ultimate Purpose In Building Up The Body Of Christ? [Part 2 of 2.] Ephesians 4:13-16. [Part of the series “Praying Our way Through Ephesians.”]

Posted on September 6, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

In a previous article we looked at how God gave gifts to His body of believers [the church] to help build up the body of Christ. Among those gifts, were people with gifts for various ministries. That was seen in Ephesians 4:11-12, “And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers,12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ.” In this article we go on to consider what was the ultimate purpose of God in doing so.

Paul is saying that when every part of the body of Christ is playing their part as God intended them to do, then changes take place. His goal for the church is capable of being achieved. These are his words, “until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, 14  so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. 15 Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love” Ephesians 4:13-16. What did he mean?

  1.  THE GOAL OF CHRISTIAN UNITY.Verse 13. “until we all attain to the unity of the faith”.

Paul had already instructed earlier in this chapter, that believers were to be “eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” Eph 4:3.He infers that unity of the faith is a present reality and proceeds from the unity that the Spirit inspires. So why does he now [in verse 13] seem to indicate that the unity of the faith is something that still has to be attained? The answer seems to lie in the difference between the desired and possible potential made available by the Holy Spirit and what is the present reality in the body of Christ.

We can see the difference as we look at the words of Jesus when He said, “You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” Mat 5:48. The goal of every believer should be to aim at perfection in living for the Lord, whilst knowing that none except Jesus ever achieved or will ever achieve that goal. But the goal of perfection is never to be neglected nor ignored. We should always aim to be the best and do the best we can possibly can. Then we need to repent before the Lord for all failures to meet those goals. It means then that we should recognise and seek to deepen the unity we have in Christ, and to break down any apparent barriers to unity we discover in the attempt to achieve our goal. 

  1. THE GOAL OF KNOWING CHRIST MORE DEEPLY.Verse 13. “and of the knowledge of the Son of God.”

This is another goal we are to seek to attain. It means much more than knowing about Jesus, though that is an absolute necessity. It means seeking to attain a more personal and intimate knowledge of Him. Indeed, that is what Paul prayed for the Ephesians in chapter 1 of this letter, “I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better.” Eph 1:17. There is only one thing better than knowing Christ. That is, knowing Him better! That cannot be experienced in isolation.As we join in the unity of fellowship with others in Christ we can learn from each other what they have experienced in their walk with Jesus and thus gain an even deeper understanding, or a more personal knowledge of Jesus. It is a goal that can never be perfectly achieved, but it is a goal that has to be relentlessly pursed. A deepening and more personal knowledge of Jesus will be a desired result.

  1. THE GOAL OF CHRISTIAN MATURITY.Verses 13-14. “to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, 14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.”

Adulthood and childhood. The contrast is made in these verses between believers who are characterised as being immature children and other believers who are characterised as being mature adults. The former are described here as “children” where the word is [nēpios; νήπιος]. This is close enough in sound for me to call them “nappy” believers. The word can refer to young children or infants, but it can also be used to describe an inability or an unwillingness of those older in years to grow in maturity, especially in the faith. [NOTE 1]

The mark of these immature believers is that they were easily influenced. Paul here writes of them being “tossed to and fro by the waves.” They were not spiritually stable. Nor did their faith rest on a stable foundation. They were“carried about by every wind of doctrine, These are very negative statements about them. They were influenced by every new “teaching“ similar in a way some women were influenced in 2Tim 3:7  “always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth.” They were prone to deception by human cunning and by “craftiness in deceitful schemes.”Eph. 4:14. [NOTE 2]. 

It is sad to see the combination of these words, cunning, craftiness, deceitful and schemes as factors at work in the lives of immature or childish Christians. However, Paul goes on immediately to speak about how maturity, the desired goal, could be obtained. In verse 13 he describes that maturity as being “mature manhood” and to the “measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ.”

  1. THE GOAL OF BECOMING MORE CHRISTLIKE IN SPEECH AND IN CHARACTER.Verses 15-16

How? By speaking truthfully to one another. 4:15. “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.” Paul explained that concept later in the same chapter.“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” Eph 4:29. The speech proceeding from our lips should always be good for building up the other person or people. [NOTE 3].

It also has to be appropriate, “As fits the occasion.”  Its purpose should be to give grace to all who hear it. So Christian speech should simply be giving the right word to the right person at the right time from the right motivation [love].

By learning to live as the body of Christ, “growing up together in Him, 16. from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each partis working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.” The church is a body made up of many members. Each member has a God-given purpose in contributing to the body. When all are encouraged to express their insights and to lovingly share their gifts in the body, the body grows in love.

A SIMPLE PRAYER BASED ON THIS PASSAGE

“Heavenly Father, We thank You that You have called us to belong to You and to one another in Your body the church. Help us to live out that unity as we grow closer to Jesus Your Son. Fill us with Your Holy Spirit so that we remain true to You and to Your word, as we seek to speak in love and to encourage other members of Your body to grow to maturity. Enable us all to play our part in Your kingdom purposes so that Jesus may be exalted among Your people. We ask this in Jesus’ name. AMEN.”  

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[NOTE 1].  Some examples indicating some degree of censure are the following.

1 Cor. 3:1. “But I, brothers, could not address you as spiritual people, but as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ.”

Gal. 4:3. “In the same way we also, when we were children, were enslaved to the elementary principles of the world.”

[From our passage in this article.]Eph. 4:14. “so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.”

[NOTE 2]. “Schemes” [methodeia, μεθοδεία compare English word “method”] is found only here and in Eph 6:11. It too has the sense of deception.

[NOTE 3]. “Building up.” Here the word is [oikodomē; οἰκοδομή]. This has the meaning, to make strong by building up [for example, the other person]. It also has the meaning to “edify.” So true Christian speech spoken in love should aim to strengthen and to edify the other person or people to whom it is addressed.

Blog No.325. Posted on www.jimholbeck.blog  on Friday 6thSeptember 2019

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324. “Who Is Jesus?” The Most Important Question We Can Ever Ask And Answer!

Posted on September 1, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

After hearing a challenging sermon today on the question, “Who is Jesus?” I was reminded of one of the most powerful sections in CS Lewis’ book, “Mere Christianity.” Lewis wrote, “A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic—on the level with the man who says he is a poached egg—or else he would be the Devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God, or else a madman or something worse. You can shut him up for a fool, you can spit at him and kill him as a demon or you can fall at his feet and call him Lord and God, but let us not come with any patronising nonsense about his being a great human teacher. He has not left that open to us. He did not intend to. . . . Now it seems to me obvious that He was neither a lunatic nor a fiend: and consequently, however strange or terrifying or unlikely it may seem, I have to accept the view that He was and is God.” (Mere Christianity, 55-56)

Following Lewis’ train of thinking, was Jesus Bad? Was He Mad? Or was He what He claimed to be? John the Beloved disciple helps us here. John wrote about Jesus in his gospel. He began his gospel in verse 1 with the expression “In the beginning was the Word.” Later in verse 14 he explains who or what this Word actually is, “And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.” The Word he is describing in chapter 1 is of course, Jesus.

Let us then look at this chapter 1 of John’s gospel and insert [Jesus] whenever this “Word” is mentioned.

John 1:1-14. “In the beginning was the Word [Jesus], and the Word [Jesus] was with God, and the Word [Jesus} was God. He [Jesus] was in the beginning with God. All things were made through him [Jesus], and without him [Jesus] was not any thing made that was made. In him [Jesus] was life, and the life [Jesus] was the light of men. The light [Jesus] shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it [Jesus].

There was a man sent from God, whose name was John. He [John] came as a witness, to bear witness about the light [Jesus], that all might believe through him. He [John] was not the light, but {John] came to bear witness about the light [Jesus].

The true light [Jesus], which gives light to everyone, was coming into the world. He {Jesus] was in the world, and the world was made through him [Jesus], yet the world did not know him. He [Jesus] came to his own, and his [Jesus] own people did not receive him. But to all who did receive him [Jesus], who believed in his [Jesus] name, he [Jesus] gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.

And the Word [Jesus] became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his [Jesus]  glory, glory as of the only Son [Jesus] from the Father, full of grace and truth.”

What a challenging passage of scripture! The Jesus who was crucified on that first Good Friday in apparent weakness was and is none other, than the creator of all things. Creatures crucified their Creator who had come to die for them to bring them back to God! As Paul was later to write, “For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.” 2 Cor 5:14-15. 

We recognise the reality that Jesus has died for us. The reality should now be that we are living for Him!  But is that the reality in our own personal lives? It ought to be. It should be. It had better be when we consider just who this Jesus is! Love demands a response to His love for us! The response required is seen in verse 12 of that gospel passage, “But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.” Believing Him and receiving Him into one’s own life is the response He longs for, from us!

Blog No.324 posted on www.jimholbeck.blogon Sunday 01 Sept 2019

 

 

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323. God Wants All His People To Be Filled With His Presence. AND He Has Made It Possible. He Tells Us How In Ephesians 4:7-16.  [Part 1 of 2.] [Part Of The Series ‘Praying Our Way Through Ephesians.’]

Posted on August 29, 2019 by Jim Holbeck

In this passage Paul shows that God has given grace to all His people [verses 4-7]. He has also given them ‘graced’ people to help them work together to fulfil His purpose of filling them with His presence [or the fulness of Christ.] Eph 4:7. ‘But grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ’s gift. 8. Therefore it says, “When he ascended on high he led a host of captives, and he gave gifts to men.” 9. (In saying, “He ascended,” what does it mean but that he had also descended into the lower regions, the earth?  10. He who descended is the one who also ascended far above all the heavens, that he might fill all things.)’

What did Christ give? 4:7. He gave grace to all believers. We need to remember that grace is used in at least 2 ways in the New Testament. It can mean “God’s unmerited favour” which stresses His love towards all His people. As believers they are all equally accepted in His sight. But grace is also used to denote God’s enabling. That is seen in 2 Cor 12:9 where Paul records that he had asked the Lord for relief from a stressful situation. However, he writes that the Lord answered his request in this manner, ‘But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.’ God graces His people not only with His favour but also with His resources to cope in difficult and indeed all situations.

It is interesting to note that when Paul writes that grace was “given,” the word for “given” is from the Greek word [didōmi; δίδωμι]. It is the word used in the most famous verse in the Bible, John 3:16, “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son …”. Any gift from God stems from His love for His people and is a mark of His amazing grace to them. But Paul adds to that in the same verse where he writes that this grace was given ‘according to the measure of Christ’s gift’ where “gift” is [dōrea; δωρεά]. This word emphasises the gratuitous character of the gift. His gifts cannot be earned or deserved. They are always a free gift stemming from His grace and love.

 When did Jesus give this grace? After His death, resurrection and ascension. He gave this grace at Pentecost when He poured out the Holy Spirit on all His followers at that time. As Peter explained in Acts 2:38, “Being therefore exalted at the right hand of God, and having received from the Father the promise of the Holy Spirit, he has poured out this that you yourselves are seeing and hearing.” As Eph 4:8 describes “When he ascended on high he led a host of captives, and he gave gifts to men.” Again the word for ‘gave’ is the word we saw above, [didōmi;δίδωμι.] The gifts have been distributed by the Holy Spirit since the outpouring of the Spirit at Pentecost.

What was the content of His grace? He gave people to help fulfil His purposes.Verse 11.“And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers.” [“Gave” here is the same word [didōmi; δίδωμι.] This was His sovereign act. The church couldn’t fashion such people. They could only recognise and affirm God’s gifting of each individual to be used by God for particular functions of ministry.]

  • Christ gave Apostles. From [apostolos; ἀπόστολος.] It can mean someone who is sent, such as a messenger, a delegate, an ambassador. Christ chose the original 12 apostles but there were others known as apostles in the New Testament, including St Paul. Opinions vary as to whether there are apostles in the church today. If they do exist, they certainly would not have the same authority as the 12 chosen by Jesus.
  • Christ gave Prophets. [prophētēs; προφήτης.] It seems that the main function of prophets was to declare the will and the word of God for the people of God [mainly] in various generations. It was like getting God’s perspective on situations or foretelling the predicted future if a present course of action was to be followed. Again it is debated whether prophets exist as an office in the church today to have this same function. However it has to be remembered that all believers are meant to be open to the Spirit of God to be used in prophecy.  Paul expressed his desire that all believers prophesy in 1 Cor 14:5, “Now I want you all to speak in tongues, but even more to prophesy. The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues, unless someone interprets, so that the church may be built up.”

Paul understood that prophecy needed to be tested. In 1 Thessalonians he urged his readers thus, 1Th 5:19  “Do not quench the Spirit. 20  Do not treat prophecies with contempt 21  but test them all; hold on to what is good, 22  reject every kind of evil.”

Jesus had warned against false prophets who could deceive believers, in Mat 7:15, 24:11, 24, Mark 13:22 whilst Peter and John also did so, Peter in 2Pet 2:1 “But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you” and John in 1Jn 4:1 “Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.” All prophecy has to be tested by the word of God.

 Sam Storms recently gave this wise counsel in his blogsite on Revelation 2:20, which reads “Nevertheless, I have this against you: You tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophet. By her teaching she misleads my servants into sexual immorality and the eating of food sacrificed to idols.”

He warned in his article, “Some of you may be unaware of how mesmerizing and enticing the prospect of supernatural activity can be. When one witnesses what one believes is a genuine supernatural or miraculous event, otherwise normal theological defense mechanisms often fail to operate. Discernment is cast aside, lest it be viewed as a critical spirit or the response of a cynic. No one wants to be perceived as stiff-necked and resistant to the voice of God or the manifestation of his power. So, it is hard for some to resist and challenge the “ministry” of a recognized (or “alleged”) prophet in the church. … The “spirit” of “Jezebel” was not unique to the church in Thyatira. It is alive and well in the body of Christ today.” [See Note 1]

Having had to minister to many folk over the years who had received damaging “prophecies” and having also been the recipient of a few doubtful “prophecies,” this is very wise counsel indeed! Prophecies are meant to build people up, not to shame people or to have condemnation and judgment poured out on them. As Paul wrote in 1 Cor 14:3, “On the other hand, the one who prophesies speaks to people for their upbuilding and encouragement and consolation.” Prophecy as described by St Paul has a positive purpose for the lives of the people of God.

  • Christ gave Evangelists. “Evangelist” is [euaggelistēs; εὐαγγελιστής.] It is made up of two words [eu meaning good or well] and [aggelistēs which is derived from angelos, ἄγγελος meaning a messenger.] So an “evangelist” is one who shares good news [euangelion; εὐαγγέλιον the gospel.] It was a role in the early church, but all believers were meant to share the gospel. It has always been part of the Great Commission for the people of God, “And He said to them, “Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation.”’ Mark 16:15.

Paul gave his reasons why he preached the gospel, “That is why I am so eager to preach the gospel also to you who are in Rome. 16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes: first to the Jew, then to the Gentile.” Rom 1:15-16. There was nothing to be ashamed about in the gospel message. In fact it could bring salvation to all those who heard it and responded to it.

Every believer should be willing to share the good news about Jesus, for as He Himself said,  “The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.” Luke 6:45. If one’s heart is filled with love for Jesus, then from that fulness, one’s heart will speak of Him to others.

  • Christ gave Shepherds and Teachers. Some have taken these two terms as indicating the one role in ministry calling them “pastor-teachers.” It is helpful to look at them separately. If a gifted teacher lacks love, compassion or empathy towards those he or she is teaching, then believers may be tempted to drift to a more caring environment where the pastoral aspect of the ministry appears to be more evident.

“Shepherds” [poimēn; ποιμήν] is derived from a similar word [poimnion; ποίμνιον meaning a flock [of sheep]. The shepherd [pastor] cares for his flock. The true pattern for such ministry is Jesus Himself. He said so, “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.” Jn 10:11. 

“Teachers.” [didaskalos; διδάσκαλος] can mean a teacher or an instructor. Their function is to make the word of God come alive to the people of God so that they in turn can instruct others in Christian truths [or share truths about Jesus with others.]

What is humbling for teachers is to recognise that the Holy Spirit Himself is the real teacher in teaching situations as Paul wrote, “Now we have received not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, that we might understand the things freely given us by God. And we impart this in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the Spirit, interpreting spiritual truths to those who are spiritual.” 1 Cor 2:13. True teachers are those who are open to the Holy Spirit to reveal the truth to them. Then, and only then, will they be able to impart those truths with any authority to others.

 What was His purpose in giving all these different people to perform different forms of ministry?12.“to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ.”

  • Equipping His people for the work of ministry. We note that it is the ‘saints’ [all God’s people] who are to be equipped. People of every age in every age. The word for “equipping” [katartismós; καταρτισμός] is used only here in the whole of the New Testament. It means making fully ready. But ready for what? Paul gives us the answer, “for the work of ministry.” So it is the whole body of Christ that is to be equipped for ministry; not just the middle aged people, nor just the older mature saints, but the young of all ages as well. No matter what age believers may be, they are all indwelt by the Holy Spirit of God and can be used by Him to minister to others.

[I well remember a little girl aged about six who had a big impression on me as a 20 year old unbeliever. She was visiting our home after paying a visit with her parents to an institution for severely handicapped young children. Her older brother was a resident there and would never leave that institution or similar ones, such was the severity of his condition.  Her words were something like this as she spoke of her brother, “Timmy is different but Jesus loves him.” She obviously loved him [and Jesus] but it made me wonder what sort of person was this Jesus, who had any sort of concern for a young child who was virtually a vegetable [as people once used to say]. Her words made me begin to think very seriously about this Jesus. Perhaps she never knew how deeply her words that day affected me. I still remember them vividly 60 plus years later. Children can be used by the Lord to witness to others of His love! But they can be encouraged to do so naturally.

  • What is this “work of ministry?” for which that believers need to be equipped? Derivatives of the words are used in English today. “Work” is [ergon; ἔργον from which we get our English word “erg”.] It is a word used to describe the unit of energy or work in Physics. Likewise the word “ministry” is derived from [diakonia; διακονία] meaning service to others.  Those who do so are called “deacons” belonging to a “diaconate.”

We get some idea of the immensity of this work or ministry when we consider what Paul wrote in Philippians  2:12-13, “…..work out [katergazomai] your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works [energeō] in you, both to will and to work [energeō] for his good pleasure.” (Notice the underlined ‘erg’in each of these verbs in the text!) Believers of all ages have to work out in practical living what God is inwardly working in them. What a privilege! What a responsibility! But what powerful resources are ours in Him, to enable us to fulfil those responsibilities!

  • What is the function of this ministry? To build up the body of Christ. [4:12, “for building up the body of Christ.”]

The work of ministry is a building work. It is the building up of the body of Christ. But what does that involve? Again the NT words help us. “Building” is the translation from the Greek noun [oikodomē; οἰκοδομή]. The word can mean a building or it can also mean “edification” [the building up of knowledge and understanding.]  Paul wrote later in the chapter, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” 4:29.

That leads us to finding out what is the ultimate purpose of God in using people in ministry or service to one another! That will be the exciting and challenging focus in our next article!

A SIMPLE PRAYER BASED ON CONCEPTS in Eph 4:7-16.

“Father, I thank You that You have placed me in the Body of Christ. I thank You too that You have given me gifts to use in helping build up the body of Christ. Please work within me by Your Holy Spirit so that I can be motivated and empowered to do the work You have prepared for me to do. I ask this in Jesus’ name. AMEN.”

Blog No.323. Posted on www.jimholbeck.blog on Thursday 29thAugust 2019 

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NOTES:

Note 1.  See on https://www.samstorms.com/enjoying-god-blog/post/10-things-you-should-know-about-the–jezebel-spirit-

 

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322. Solving Some Of Rugby Union’s Problems. A View From An Elderly Fan.

Posted on August 13, 2019 by Jim Holbeck
My blogsite is listed as being “Reflections on life in general and on healing in particular.” But this is a little different from usual in that I am writing about sport and about using  preventative measures to ensure more healing takes place in sport.

Does Rugby Union have a problem? Yes, it has one that comes from their attempt to make the game safer for its players. But perhaps inadvertently it has made the situation worse. As I was watching the second Bledisloe test between New Zealand and Australia being played in Perth recently I was saddened when one of the All Black {NZ} players received a red card and was sent off for an alleged high tackle. It meant that the remainder of the game boiled down to a contest between 15 and 14 players. That is never fair when the contest is between some of the toughest and the most highly skilled players on the planet.

I saw two problems that needed to be addressed.

The First Problem Was The One To Do With Crowd Support. [Duty Of Care For The Supporters.]

As an Australian rugby fan I don’t always feel sorry for New Zealand teams when they lose. [Mind you, they hardly ever do, such is the depth of their Rugby in New Zealand and the broad support their All Blacks team (and provincial teams) receive throughout the nation.] But on this occasion I felt disappointed for the hundreds of New Zealanders had travelled all the way to  Perth to support their beloved national team but just before half time, the game was virtually over, as one of their players was ordered from the field. Only a very determined All Blacks outfit kept the score to a “respectable” level.

I thought of similar games when players were sent off for ten minute periods for yellow card offences, and for the rest of the game for more serious red card offences. Games in which this happens lose their purpose and meaning. The purpose of a test match between two nations is to have a competition where the best players of each nation seek to have a victory over the same number of players of the other nation by using superior skill-sets, better kicking, attacking and defending skills and often a more clever use of power.

The fans are best served by having full number of players on the field throughout the match. Otherwise it becomes an uneven and ultimately disappointing contest for the fans. If these send-offs are to continue to happen, then the support base for the game could seriously diminish. It could ultimately result in a loss of interest for young people in playing the game, and crippling financial losses as well.

The Second Problem Has To Deal With The Safety Of The Players. [Duty Of Care For The Players.]

Teams are chosen to represent the best team to overcome and defeat the opposition. That means there must be an equal number of players on the field at all times. Not only that but the safety of the players must be paramount. That is why in world Rugby there has been a determined attempt to prevent or minimise head injuries of attacking players in tackles made by defending players. There are in place difficult criteria that seek to determine whether the tackle was lawful or unlawful and also whether the alleged illegal tackle was intentional or not. Those details are virtually impossible to ascertain in the moments following the tackle. And how can you determine the intention of any tackler anyway? There must be a better way.

Here are some of my suggestions to help save Rugby as a sporting and safer spectacle.

A]. Intention cannot be proven. So scrap that part of the equation in determining the penalty for a perceived illegal tackle during a game. Consider these alternatives!

When a tackler makes what appears to be a shoulder charge and/or contact with the head [or above the shoulders] of the ballcarrier, then the following procedures should be put in place.

  • Both the tackler and the person tackled be forced to leave the field of play and the latter be examined for any symptoms of head injury. Reserves are brought on immediately to replace these 2 players to maintain a 15 a side contest.
  • If the tackled player is deemed to be free of any head injury and is medically allowed to return to the field of play then that can happen. However the alleged illegal tackler has to remain on the reserve bench and can only be used as the final replacement later in the game if that is necessary.
  • If the person who was tackled is unable to return to the field of play because a head injury is deemed to have occurred, then the tackler can play no further part in the game.
  • Reviews of the incident can be assessed more seriously and more leisurely following the game and any further penalties can be brought to bear on the alleged illegal tackler.

B]. Advantages of the above process

  1. It maintains an even contest between two 15 a side teams for the entire match.
  2. It avoids the danger that come from having undermanned teams physically putting themselves at risk in seeking to overcome their deficit in player strength and numbers.
  3. It avoids the needless stoppages in play as endless replays of such incidents are played on the ground big screens. Fans come to see action football, not several replays of the same incident as the players cool down waiting for some decision to be made as to the legality or otherwise of a tackle.
  4. It avoids the increasing anger of supporters when they begin to realise the severity and danger of a disputed tackle after watching several replays.
  5. It obviates the need to form a fair judgment during the duration of a match, on the intentionality or otherwise of any tackler.
  6. Longer times to conduct reviews of disputed tackles should result in fairer outcomes for both the tackler and the player tackled.
  7. It avoids the difficulty for referees in having to make-on-the spot decisions regarding the intentionality of the tackler, the severity of the tackle and the appropriate penalty to be applied.

So there is my contribution to saving Rugby Union as a sport. The rules are simple and could be applied almost immediately. Almost before the World Cup in a few weeks time! It offers a real duty of care for the team supporters so they get value for the money they have spent in following their team to often distant lands.

It also offers duty of care for players in having evenly numbered teams contesting for success. It offers a fairer assessment of intentionality [if that is ever possible] and an easier way of ensuring players are immediately protected in disputed tackles. It should also help reduce the number of illegal tackles in games as selectors would be loth to pick players who infringe regularly when they play.

At a time when many former players of contact sports such as Rugby Union, Rugby League and American Football have been diagnosed as suffering from Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy [CTE] from repeated head injuries, these suggestions above could make a difference. There is nothing more excruciating than seeing a player who had received an obvious blow to the head in a tackle get up, shake his head, stagger a bit and then keep on playing. [My only personal experience with concussion whilst playing A Grade Rugby League made me realise that one can get up and continue playing without anyone realising some damage has occurred. My problem was that at half time I asked the coach what team we were playing. [We were actually playing the RAAF team at Amberley Airbase in the Ipswich Rugby League competition, so normally that would have been obvious with a number of Canberra bombers clearly in sight.] It was only after a night spent under observation in the Ipswich General Hospital that I realised that I had been concussed.]  Real duty of care demands that any blow to the head should be taken seriously and immediate assessment for damage take place. My humble suggestions above attempt to go some distance in making that provision.

Blog No.322. Solving Some Of Rugby Union’s Problems. A View From An Elderly Fan. Posted on Tuesday 13thAugust 2019

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