[From a sermon preached at the Healing Service in StAndrews Cathedral, Sydney in 1997.]
As Jesus reclined at the table in a private home, a woman came to Him carrying a jar whose contents (perfumed ointment) were valued at almost one year’s salary. Others might be plotting His death, but at least one person was showing Him, that to her, He was special.
I want us tonight to look at how love behaves, as we see it expressed by the woman.
THE EXPRESSIONS OF TRUE LOVE.
1. Love Takes The Initiative. She Came To Him. 14:3
We don’t know what sort of contact this woman had previously had with Jesus, but obviously her heart had been moved by His ministry of love. It may have been in gratitude for a blessing she had received at His hands. Or it may have been that she was overcome with the sheer integrity of His life. Whatever it was, she wasn’t going to let the opportunity pass to express her love. She came to Him.
Let me ask you, whether there is anyone that you should be loving, but you’re holding back. You’re waiting for them to take the initiative before you give of yourself in love to them. You think to yourself, “When I see some evidence that they’re sorry; when I think they’ve suffered enough through my withdrawal of love to them; when they have proved that they have changed; then and only then will I become loving and gracious to them.”
If you’ve got that sort of attitude, it’s something you need to repent of, because that’s not how love behaves. What would have happened if God had acted on those same principles. He would have looked at the world in all its sin and said, “What an ungrateful, sinful mob. They don’t deserve to have me send my Son Jesus into the world to die for them.” But His word says that it was while we were yet sinners that Christ came and died for us. He took the initiative. God may be calling many of you tonight to take the initiative in seeking to reach out to restore relationships. To bring His healing grace and power into human lives.
2. Love Offers The Best That One Has. 14:3
It is almost certain that this was the most valuable possession that the woman had. She could have thought, “I’ll just put a little dab on His forehead and keep the rest for another time.” But there wasn’t going to be another time. Within hours He was going to be dead. She broke the jar and poured it all over His head and anointed His head with it.
What a contrast to so much in the church through the ages. Support for missionaries in the form of second-hand tea bags. Support for Christian causes from small change in the pocket, rather than committed giving. But love offers the best that one has, sacrificially and generously. Praise God that so many of His people give sacrificially and with love.
3. Love Makes The Most Of Every Opportunity. 14:3-4
It must have been hard for her to go into that home and do what she did. But it was important enough for her to risk all the ridicule and the misunderstanding of her action. Men could have thought the worst of her morals. Women could have thought that she was downgrading the status of women by making such a pathetic display of pandering to a man in this public way. She did what she could, when she could, making the most of the opportunity before it was too late.
I have often come across very sad situations in visiting people who have been bereaved. But the saddest of those circumstances is that in which people are living with regret for the opportunities that were missed for showing love and affection. As a young person, I once heard the words that go something like this, “I shall pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.” [Words attributed to Stephen Grellet (1772 –1855) who was a prominent French-American Quaker missionary.]
The moments for expressing love which were never taken up, are lost for eternity. I remember being in my late 20’s and most of my younger friends had already married. I had begun to have deep feelings about one of the girls in my fellowship group. I felt she was far too good for me and was destined to become the wife of a Lord Mayor or a Prime Minister or some other dignitary. All I had to offer her was my love and a life in an ordinary lifestyle. I hesitated about telling her how I felt. But I had this strange thought. Would I ever seek less than God’s best for her? NO! Would I ever deliberately hurt her or fail to appreciate her? NO! I felt I would be committed to her for the rest of our natural lives if she was willing to accept me as a lifelong partner. One Sunday night after I had driven her home from church I decided to share what I was feeling. Adopting a very low-key approach I said to her, ”I think I’m beginning to like you.” When it appeared that my profession of love in this form pleased her I was able to tell her that I loved her very much. And to my delight, this beautiful attractive creature replied, ‘I love you too!” It meant that months afterwards we began our richly blessed life together for almost 54 years before she passed into the presence of the Lord. I am so glad that I got around to expressing my love to this wonderful servant of God and as a result serving Him together for those 54 years.
What marriages could have been enriched, what families could have been blessed for generations, if husbands and wives had taken those opportunities to express their love for each other, and the influence of that be passed on to their children. Unfortunately, the pattern that is set for marriage in the eyes of many children, is that of conditional love, not the self-giving love of the New Testament.
The way we behave is not just affecting you and me; it is affecting generations where those wrong attitudes continue in the family.
4. Love Is Never Wasted. 14:4-5
I want us to notice the different value placed on her action. Many there perhaps, including some of the disciples said, “What a waste. “ In fact they tried to be spiritual about it, saying, “This ointment could have been sold and given to the poor. ” They saw it all as a terrible waste. What they were really saying was this, “HE ISN’T WORTH IT.” But she thought He was. What did Jesus think? He called what she did a “beautiful thing.” Not only was it beautiful, but it was timely. The poor could benefit from help at any time, but He had only hours to live. Her opportunity to show love was not wasted. Nor is love ever wasted.
Sometimes we might hear the words uttered by parents when a daughter marries someone whom they feel is inferior to the family, “She threw herself away on him. What a waste of a talented girl.” But it’s no waste if there is genuine love between the daughter and her husband and they affirm each other, encouraging each other to know and do the Lord’s best for them. God, you could say, gambled when He sent His Son into the world. What if most people rejected Him, wouldn’t that be an incredible waste of the life of His precious Son? But it was His initiative in sending His Son into the world to die for sinners that made some respond in love to His love. Love gives in spite of not being appreciated, and can bring forth love in the other person. Praise God for every person who has responded to the Lord’s love by loving Him in return!
5. Love Is Eternal. 14:6-9
That’s what Paul wrote in 1 Cor 13. “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things, Love never ends.” So significant was this expression of love in the eyes of Jesus that He gave it eternal value. He said that her actions would be told throughout all the generations of humankind in memory of her. This action of the woman will never be forgotten while there is a world. Our expressions of love are also eternal. They change the world around us and then spread out to touch the lives of others, who in turn acting in love, touch more people. But our failure to love is also eternal. It has eternal consequences. What would the world be like now, if generations ago, some of the people in the Middle East or in parts of Africa had put aside their bitterness and determined by the grace of God to take the initiative and to be loving to those whom they once hated?
This is a very powerful story. Jesus knew we needed to be challenged with a human example of someone who loved. I believe that tonight God is going to begin to open some of us wide open, so that He might pour His love into us by His Holy Spirit, and He is going to impress upon us the need to take the initiative in showing love to those whom He will show us.
We need to cooperate with Him as He shows us who those people are, even though we may be going through difficult times, “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4 and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, 5 and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.” Romans 5:3-5.
We are able to love even the unlovable with the agape love of God. It is God’s own love poured into our hearts, flowing through us to enrich the life of a person [or people] who long to be loved. To whom do we need to reach out with God’s love?
Blog No.537 posted on Tuesday 12 March 2024,
538. JESUS IS ALIVE! Mark 16:1-19. Gospel for Easter Sunday. 31 March 2024
We read these words in Mark16:14, “Afterward he appeared to the eleven themselves as they were reclining at table, and he rebuked them for their unbelief and hardness of heart, because they had not believed those who saw him after he had risen.” At first sight, it seems out of character for Jesus to be confrontational in His approach to His disciples. The word for ”rebuke” is [oneidizō; ὀνειδίζω] meaning also to reproach, revile, upbraid. The reason for His rebuke was the unbelief and the hardness of heart of the disciples. Some followers of Jesus had seen Him after He had risen from the dead and had excitedly shared the news with the apostles. Imagine their surprise and their disappointment when the apostles did not believe them.
What was the news they rejected?
i]. It Was News Some Disciples Were Afraid To Share. 16:1-8
The first people to know Jesus had risen from the dead were three women who had gone to the tomb to prepare Jesus’ body for burial, “When the Sabbath was past, Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, and Salome bought spices, so that they might go and anoint him. 2 And very early on the first day of the week, when the sun had risen, they went to the tomb. 3 And they were saying to one another, “Who will roll away the stone for us from the entrance of the tomb?” 4 And looking up, they saw that the stone had been rolled back—it was very large. 5 And entering the tomb, they saw a young man sitting on the right side, dressed in a white robe, and they were alarmed. 6 And he said to them, “Do not be alarmed. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He has risen; he is not here. See the place where they laid him. 7 But go, tell his disciples and Peter that he is going before you to Galilee. There you will see him, just as he told you.” 8 And they went out and fled from the tomb, for trembling and astonishment had seized them, and they said nothing to anyone, for they were afraid.” Mark 16:1-8.
What a wonderful message they could have shared with the apostles and others. An angel told them that the crucified Jesus whose body had been placed in a tomb had risen from the dead and was going to meet with Peter and the disciples in Galilee. There was no need for them to be afraid. But they were afraid. Afraid of the unknown factors behind the supernatural and mysterious event that had taken place. It was beyond human explanation and experience. They had been told facts not theories but were afraid to share what was true.
There may be many in today’s world who likewise are afraid of what doesn’t concur with their human reasoning and experience. Because they have not experienced miraculous power they rubbish it or deny the possibility. But the Bible contains facts given by God in His word that humans are meant to accept and act on.
ii]. It was News Mary Magdalene Shared With The Apostles. 16:9-11.
Mary Magdalene had seen the empty tomb and heard the angel of the Lord tell her and the other women that Jesus had risen. But she later had a personal visitation from the Lord, “Now when he rose early on the first day of the week, he appeared first to Mary Magdalene, from whom he had cast out seven demons. 10 She went and told those who had been with him, as they mourned and wept, “But when they heard that he was alive and had been seen by her, they would not believe it.” Mark 16:9-11.
The angel had told her and the other women that Jesus had risen from the dead but she and the others were too afraid to share the news. Suddenly Jesus appeared before her. Now she believed He was alive. Jesus was later to say to someone [the apostle Thomas] who had been disbelieving until he personally saw Jesus, “Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” John 20:29. Once Mary Magdalene was convinced that Jesus was alive she immediately went to share the good news with the apostles. What a shock it must have been to her when they would not believe what she told them.
iii]. it was News Two Disciples Shared With The Apostles. 16:12-13.
“After these things, he appeared in another form to two of them, as they were walking into the country. 13 And they went back and told the rest, but they did not believe them.” 16:12-13.
Luke records what happened when these 2 disciples were joined by Jesus as they travelled towards Emmaus. They invited Him to stay with them and as they began to eat together the following happened, “When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed and broke it and gave it to them. 31 And their eyes were opened, and they recognized him. And he vanished from their sight. 32 They said to each other, “Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the Scriptures?” 33 And they rose that same hour and returned to Jerusalem. And they found the eleven and those who were with them gathered together, 34 saying, “The Lord has risen indeed, and has appeared to Simon!” 35 Then they told what had happened on the road, and how he was known to them in the breaking of the bread.” Luke 24:30-35.
But as Luke puts it, “…. but they did not believe them.” 16:12-13.
There were now 3 separate witnesses who told the disciples that they had seen Jesus now risen from the dead. Why didn’t they believe them?
iv]. It Was News The Apostles Believed When Jesus Appeared To Them. 16:14
Mark 16:14 “Afterward he appeared to the eleven themselves as they were reclining at table, and he rebuked them for their unbelief and hardness of heart, because they had not believed those who saw him after he had risen.” 16:14.
The apostles had to admit Jesus was alive when He appeared among them. But He chastised them for their unbelief and their hardness of heart. They were accountable for their attitude of unbelief. They should have been expectant that Jesus would rise from the dead on the third day because He had foretold exactly this, “From that time Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised.” Mat 16:21. AND in Mat 17:22-23, “As they were gathering in Galilee, Jesus said to them, “The Son of Man is about to be delivered into the hands of men, 23 and they will kill him, and he will be raised on the third day.” And they were greatly distressed.”
So there was no excuse for them when they rejected the testimony of Mary Magdalene and the 2 Emmaus disciples.
v]. It Was News The Apostles Were To Share With The World. 16:15-19
Did Jesus see the disciples as a lost cause? No, He commanded them to take the message about Himself to the whole world, “And he said to them, “Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation. 16 Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned. 17 And these signs will accompany those who believe: in my name they will cast out demons; they will speak in new tongues; 18 they will pick up serpents with their hands; and if they drink any deadly poison, it will not hurt them; they will lay their hands on the sick, and they will recover.” 19 So then the Lord Jesus, after he had spoken to them, was taken up into heaven and sat down at the right hand of God.” Luke 16:15-19.
Praise God that He can overcome human failures as those humans recognise the claims of the risen Christ on them and submit to Him as their Saviour and Lord!
THE CHALLENGE FOR US TODAY
This passage reminds us that Jesus Christ has risen from the dead and is alive today, seated at the right hand of God in glory. There is also the testimony of millions of people throughout the world and throughout history to the fact that He is alive because they have entered into a personal relationship with Him.
It also reminds us that every human in every generation needs to put their trust in Him, for as Luke 16:16 records Jesus saying, “Whoever does not believe will be condemned.”
There is a tendency among humans today to try to be tolerant. But we cannot be tolerant when people’s lives are at risk or when they are facing eternal punishment for refusing to believe in Jesus. Every human in every age needs to hear the gospel in order to respond to it and accept Christ as their Lord and Saviour.u
That means praying for all our family and acquaintances that their hearts would be softened by the Holy Spirit so that their hardness of heart and their unbelief might disappear and they might give their lives to the Risen Jesus Christ. Then they will be able to sing the words of this hymn by an anonymous composer,
“Jesus Christ is alive today
I know, I know it’s true
Sovereign of the universe
I give Him homage due.
Seated there at God’s right hand
I am with Him in the promised land
Jesus lives and reigns in me
That’s how I know it’s true.”
Wishing you all a VERY BLESSED EASTER and may you experience the presence and the power of the risen Christ in your lives as you open your hearts wide open to Him.
Blog No.538 posted on Friday 15 March 2024.